http://www.city-data.com/forum/roche...-penfield.html
This thread may help you out, suburbs east of the city. I live on the cities east side now, but if I had a kid I would be more inclined to live in a suburb for the better schools. You should have no trouble finding a house that fits that price range, just be careful of the taxes, they can vary widely. Ontario county may not be a bad place either, but it is very rural. Driving from the east side usually isn't too bad, the 490/590 interchange can get backed up during rush hour, but is usually a breeze.