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Old 10-20-2010, 10:58 AM
 
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According to DH the majority of these men are married with children and do not consider themselves homosexual... They are living on the down-low, as Merovee mentioned before... It's not just getting or doing sexual acts that they are looking for, they are specifically looking for it in public places... It's the thrill and adrenaline rush that comes with doing it out in public that they seek almost as much as the sexual act itself...

DH says there are websites out there where they can find out the current "hot spot" and then go cruising and looking for what they want... Public parks are not the only hot spots... DH does not want me name specific locations but another hot spot is at a college campus here in town and another is at a home improvement store... DH says the bathrooms have glory holes where the deed is done...

Many of these men are on their lunch hours when they go cruising... One man had just dropped his wife off for dialysis and decided to kill some time... DH says it was very hard to call his adult daughter and tell her that she needed to pick up her mother as her father was being arrested...

Dh also says the acts are not straight out asked for... There are signals that are used... Coughing a certain way, blinking a certain way, hand swipes across the forhead, tugging on the ear, etc... They all mean different things... Is the other person a giver or receiver, how far are they willing to go, which act will be done first... Again, all of this plays into the adrenaline rush that keeps these men coming back to the parks or whatever hot spot is picked for the day

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Old 10-20-2010, 11:01 AM
 
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Interesting and it tells me more than ever that punishment should not be the only facet of the conversation. It is destroying families, in order to protect families we have to understand why to help these people, as help becomes part of the process others later on down the line can understand and seek help before they even go out of control and save their families.

This is why both conservative and liberal views are needed to protect all aspects of society which one or the other would neglect. But so sad that most of these men are family men, sad only because it harms the family.

I also did not understand there was a rush about doing it specifically in public as part of their perversion. Adrenaline junkies too but with all these related disorders ADHD, hypersexuality, etc.., the risk analysis part of the mind is deficient. Their brains are literally working different and it can be helped.
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Old 10-20-2010, 11:20 AM
 
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There are signals that are used... Coughing a certain way, blinking a certain way, hand swipes across the forhead, tugging on the ear, etc... They all mean different things... Is the other person a giver or receiver, how far are they willing to go, which act will be done first... Again, all of this plays into the adrenaline rush that keeps these men coming back to the parks or whatever hot spot is picked for the day
Not to be confused with the hand signals used in football by refs, coaches and players. Or "chuckin' up the deuce".... West Siiiyyyde!
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Old 10-20-2010, 11:58 AM
 
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One does not need to be a parent in order to see the evil in each and everyone else. I have even met enough parents who understand that.......




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Old 10-20-2010, 12:03 PM
 
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Long ago many thought treatable ailments were evil too, it still occurs. Funny how much the world changes but we are basically the same, silly and superstitious.
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Old 10-20-2010, 12:15 PM
 
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Oh, and not all weirdos maybe somehow feel desperate enough that they feel that they have the need to go around exposing themselves to others, I have noticed.......
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Old 10-20-2010, 12:16 PM
 
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Long ago many thought treatable ailments were evil too, it still occurs. Funny how much the world changes but we are basically the same, silly and superstitious.
*sigh* .....agreed.......
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Old 10-20-2010, 12:48 PM
 
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Well, on the border, there has been some staged illegal alien smuggling busts. What they were doing was paying some Mexican guys, they'd stop a vehicle, get the driver out and then slip their illegal(s) guy in and voila, a bust for smuggling illegal aliens in. The feds finally busted some guys that were pulling that stunt. One Mexican was used 12 times for those busts.
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Old 10-20-2010, 01:13 PM
 
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Well, on the border, there has been some staged illegal alien smuggling busts. What they were doing was paying some Mexican guys, they'd stop a vehicle, get the driver out and then slip their illegal(s) guy in and voila, a bust for smuggling illegal aliens in. The feds finally busted some guys that were pulling that stunt. One Mexican was used 12 times for those busts.
You lost me. What does this have to do with weirdos in the park?
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Old 10-20-2010, 06:08 PM
 
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The OVERWHELMING majority of these weirdos who have sex in parks are 50 years old AND OLDER!

VERY RARELY is it a younger guy. I mention this because it really does give us younger gay/bi guys A BAD BAD NAME that these grandfathers keep messing around in public and keep doing these lewd and repulsive things with others their age.

Everytime they've shown these weirdos on television, they are creepy-looking (sometimes scary) looking older men who are usually married with children.

THEY DESERVE TO BE CAUGHT AND ARRESTED.
This stuff is disgusting and gross to be doing that in public.

If you wanna mess around do at your place! Not in public where people and families are. That's just gross.

In this instance, they REALLY do give the younger gay/bi generation a bad name. I hope there isn't a stupid person on here who thinks this is the "norm" for all gay/bi peolple because it is not.

It's only the norm for trashy people who tend to be much much older and whom you would never even want to mess around with AT ALL; they can't get anything, anywhere else so they have to "resort" to hopefully getting lucky in a park. YUCK.
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