So me and my family went to San Antonio, and of course we fell in love with it

. We especially liked the Boerne area and the NW area as well as parts of the Stone Oaks area.
Well I've been offered a position in either SA or Austin. If I choose SA my office would be in NW area (10 & 1604 area), but my clients would mostly be located from the NW SA to New Braunfels/Seguin area. That being the case it seems like anything going towards Boerne to live would be a drive if I have to do a lot of visits into the New Braunfels area.
Is the 1604 to 35 drive that bad as far as traffic? I could see that the 281 north of the 1604 could be a pain once it starts getting around rush hour so I'm a bit apprehensive about getting to far north in Stone Oaks as well. Any hidden gems of neighborhoods that would be more centrally located? Looking for someplace with lots of trees, parks,community pool and convenient shopping.
Thanks for your help.