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Old 02-09-2008, 09:21 PM
 
Location: SoCal-So Proud!
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Maybe you don't meet some men's standard as well. Works both ways.
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Old 02-09-2008, 09:53 PM
 
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How about some eligible men that don't have hangups aboutr women who know what they want, mental or emotional problems, financial problems, or are just plain stupid! I have never been so bored in my entire life... I moved from CA 13 years ago, and I'm ready to go back. I thought I would find a nice family man here, but they are all either looking for a Barbie, dip tobacco, or drink way too much, missing most of their teeth, and can't hold a job...what is up with that?

Please tell me whether this is just a phase or whether this town is really that backward.

Sounds like you'd rather blame the men. Maybe it's you.
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Old 02-09-2008, 09:54 PM
 
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Have something to say about all the losers I have met...maybe there are no men in this town that meet the standard I have set for myself....maybe you men are looking for stupid blondes who have no ambition except to use you for personal gain....
So I take it you're not blonde?
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Old 02-09-2008, 09:59 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Not to offend anyone.. but it appears that California must not have had the men you were looking for either.. otherwise you woulda already had a man. I know for certain that not every man in San Antonio has missing teeth, chews tobacco and is backwards.. are there some out there like that? Yeap there sure are... but not all of them. My guess is.. your looking for em in the wrong place...

I bet if you went back to California... you wouldnt meet your man either.. I have found that there are some women who just are to complicated for men to deal with them and prefer to keep away from them. Maybe you are a high maintenance woman? I dont know.. but what really gets my goat is when someone generalizes a whole Cities men folk.. we are all not like that...
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Old 02-09-2008, 10:01 PM
Status: "Amused by Blue" (set 15 days ago)
 
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qbu4777, have you tried waitressing on the Westside? You might hook up with a city employee who gets great benefits!

Sorry, I'm happily married, and thankful that I'm out of the dating cesspool.
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Old 02-09-2008, 10:42 PM
 
Location: San Diego, CA
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qbu4777, have you tried waitressing on the Westside? You might hook up with a city employee who gets great benefits!

Sorry, I'm happily married, and thankful that I'm out of the dating cesspool.
*ROTFLMAO*
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Old 02-09-2008, 10:46 PM
 
Location: San Diego, CA
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How about some eligible men that don't have hangups aboutr women who know what they want, mental or emotional problems, financial problems, or are just plain stupid! I have never been so bored in my entire life... I moved from CA 13 years ago, and I'm ready to go back. I thought I would find a nice family man here, but they are all either looking for a Barbie, dip tobacco, or drink way too much, missing most of their teeth, and can't hold a job...what is up with that?

Please tell me whether this is just a phase or whether this town is really that backward.
You've been in SA for 13 years and have not found a single man who meets your standards? I would have to agree with other posters who say you must be looking in the wrong places!

Another question...how could you have lived in a state of boredom for 13 years? Now THAT's just plain stupid!
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Old 02-10-2008, 08:36 AM
 
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You've been in SA for 13 years and have not found a single man who meets your standards? I would have to agree with other posters who say you must be looking in the wrong places!

Another question...how could you have lived in a state of boredom for 13 years? Now THAT's just plain stupid!

I was married for 5 of those 13 years, and so I have been single for 8 years...Any ideas on where I should be looking because this cow town is getting old!
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Old 02-10-2008, 08:37 AM
 
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Maybe you are one of those men I've been looking for...because this cow town is getting old!
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Old 02-10-2008, 08:41 AM
 
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Talking Get over yourself!

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Not to offend anyone.. but it appears that California must not have had the men you were looking for either.. otherwise you woulda already had a man. I know for certain that not every man in San Antonio has missing teeth, chews tobacco and is backwards.. are there some out there like that? Yeap there sure are... but not all of them. My guess is.. your looking for em in the wrong place...

I bet if you went back to California... you wouldnt meet your man either.. I have found that there are some women who just are to complicated for men to deal with them and prefer to keep away from them. Maybe you are a high maintenance woman? I dont know.. but what really gets my goat is when someone generalizes a whole Cities men folk.. we are all not like that...

The Man....do you think you are The Man? haha..
I am probably the lowest maintenance woman you would ever find....and certainly generalization is not uncommon...and that is all it is....not all the Cities men are like that....duh.............what I mean is that I don't ask for a whole lot, hell I probably make more money than most of the men I've met, and it seems that men in SA or Texas(?), not be offended, have this preconceived idea that women don't have any brains, or have a right to their opinion. Alot of women just put up with the crap their men dish out....
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