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Old 01-26-2009, 04:35 PM
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Default In need of Lawyer and child pyschologist

Long story short....

Me and ex shared 7 yr old (1 week/ 1 week) for the past 5 years, the only right he had more than me was the right to designate primary residence even though my son used my address for school. My son has MAJOR medical problems. So far he has had 4 open heart surgeries among many other things. I am the one to take him to ALL of his appts and stay with him in hospital. I am the one to go to all of his school events.

Last summer I took him back to court for me to get primary custody and had my sons teacher there (on my behalf) and proved, by emails, that he didn't go to his medical appts. Well, somehow he got custody!!! I only get my son every Thursday and every other weekend.

I requested a retrial and REALLY need a better lawyer, one that will FIGHT for me! So far, since he got custody he puts the wrong info on his medical background, does not give him his asthma meds (he doesn't believe that he has it even though his cardiologist said he does), puts his wife on my sons school and medical forms as my sons mother!! She took him and got him live vaccines that he isn't supposed to get cause it could kill him, they don't tell me about doctors appts, the list goes on and on...

As far as needing a pyschologist...
My son tells me things that happen over there like him getting hot sauce and skoal (tobacco) in his mouth when he gets in trouble! His 2 step siblings (both younger than him) having a bike but he can't have one. He mentioned to his dad we were going to skating lessons and his dad said he doesn't need to cause he will bust his face. He told him we are putting him in soccer and dad told him he couldn't cause his feeding tube would come out. Him and his wife are ALWAYS telling him not to tell mommy things that they do like taking him to the doctor...

YES that is the short version LOL

If anyone can help me PLEASE let me know!!!!

Thank you sooo much!!
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Old 01-26-2009, 08:09 PM
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Why did your previous lawyer not "fight for you"? Did the judge hear all 3 sides of the story?

You know:

1.Your side
2.His side
3.The truth
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Old 01-26-2009, 08:57 PM
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My heart goes out to you! The "family" courts in TX (and most places) are such a train wreck & the only ones who EVER "win" are the lawyers.
My case is in another county so I can't tell you who is good / bad here - just that I've been in a similar sort of custody mess with a VERY vindictive man for almost 8 years. He (like your ex sounds) does not hesitate to put our child in the middle & do things to get at me, at our childs expense. Yes, even jepordizing her health & emotional well being. I'm SOOOO sorry that on top of the heartache & worry you have about your childs medical issues, that it is compounded by this custody situation.

We had a psychologist working with everyone, ad litem etc. & it cost BUNDLES! I don't know if we'll ever get out from under it & the ex is constandly needling me (via our child).

I pray you find a GREAT lawyer who will fight for you & your child & I hope you are in a decent court. Most of all I pray your child does not get too damaged by it all.
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