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Old 07-19-2012, 05:12 PM
 
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That's better. And I don't know. What's wrong with you?
Wrong. If it was me why is it that I get different results in a different city?

It is like a split test, nothing has been changed except my location.
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Old 07-19-2012, 05:15 PM
 
Location: Orange County, CA
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That's better. And I don't know. What's wrong with you?
To be fair, my fellow males have the fair share of jerks, but between work, social settings, networking, Meetups, and just general public encounters, there are literally four b*tches for every do*chebag. I find most of the men here to have the California chill-out attitude (except for yuppies).

I've only met ONE (yes, one) girl actually FROM the Bay that I could see myself dating. I've met a few more from SoCal (SD, SB County, even LA County) but predominantly they've been fellow transplants.

Noooowwwww...some of the women I've met a bit older than my age range, say 35-50, can be a lot more fun and less drama! But even some of them have the 'tude.

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Old 07-19-2012, 05:37 PM
 
Location: San Jose, CA
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Well, women in the Bay Area tend to be better educated, make more money and are probably less inclined to give losers the time of day.

Just saying....
...but it just doesn't seem to sink in very long. Like, about as long as it takes to get rejected, again. The Great Re-Animating Thread Topic.
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Old 07-19-2012, 05:51 PM
 
Location: San Bruno, CA
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Wrong. If it was me why is it that I get different results in a different city?

It is like a split test, nothing has been changed except my location.
The issue could still be you. I've known a few people who had relationship troubles in one area, moved a good distance to another location and suddenly things were different. It's possible that you are a bad fit for the local areas where you are seeking women.
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Old 07-19-2012, 07:04 PM
 
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Curious, most of the girls I met in SF are very nice. There are exceptions of course but by and large, friendly. Couple of weeks ago I was cleaning out my garage and this three girls happened to walk by and one of them started a conversation with me and we just started chatting. Can't get more friendlier than that.


Maybe they were casing the joint.
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Old 07-19-2012, 07:24 PM
 
Location: West Coast Wanderer
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I find the women in LA friendlier than most of the Bay Area too. I also discovered that a lot of it isn't really genuine. Personally, I'd rather be around people who didn't talk to me at all than those who are only being fake nice. Hard to tell who your real friends are with the latter.
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Old 07-19-2012, 08:36 PM
 
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I don't like this thread, thumbs down. Why am I moving to the Bay area from LA again?
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Old 07-19-2012, 09:04 PM
 
Location: West Coast
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All the friendly people were priced out.
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Old 07-19-2012, 09:25 PM
 
Location: San Jose, CA
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I don't like this thread, thumbs down. Why am I moving to the Bay area from LA again?
If this is all it takes to change your mind, don't bother.
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Old 07-19-2012, 11:06 PM
 
Location: Oakland, CA
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They are also far more attractive on average. It doesn't make any sense, shouldn't it be the other way around?
A couple of things, more women in LA are in "appearance focused" industries so they tend to keep up appearances. Also, women in LA are more likely to wear makeup/get their hair done on a daily basis.
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