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Old 10-04-2009, 08:07 AM
 
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one hundred percent alkohoolic...the headache is not worse,life to short,leave him..there is enough fish in the ocean,find another man and be happy,do not waste your time,addicted people are very hard to cure...you do not need that and if you have kids,run away as fast as you can!!!you do not want them grow up near an alkohoolic...

we do not have so many addicted persons in europe,like hier in usa..alkohool addiction,drugaddiction,pilladiction,shoppingaddic tion,videogames addiction...and so on..

best advice is:run away,get ridd of him.....it was his conscious decision to get involved in addcition,you do not have to pay and suffer for him...and NO and NO,do not waste your time with trying to fix him..he had no respect for your marriage and for you,getting involved in addcition,he did not care about you,YOU SHOUDL NOT CARE ABOUT HIM!!I would leave him in A SECOND!My life is too short to pay for somebody's else brainless!!..you want another chance,man??ok,you get it,when you appear in front of me :addcition free!!!Till then,your problem!!have a nice life and stay away from me and my kids!!

ME OR THE BOTTLE!right now it is the bottle!!When bottlefree,only then a second chance!But try to move out and not live with an alkohollic,it just destroy you and it is not worth!!

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Old 10-07-2009, 08:15 AM
 
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Does he get drunk almost every time he drinks?
Does he hide how much he is drinking?
Does he hide alcohol around the house?
Is he missing work because he has been drinking?
Does he drink and pass out a few times a week?
Does he get defensive over how much he is drinking?
Does he think that alcohol is not the problem, it is his solution?

If you can answer yes to any one of these questions, then odds are, there is a problem. Unfortunately, there is nothing you can do to help with this problem except, Don't enable his drinking! Do not threaten, either do it,or don't, but don't threaten. Your wanting him to not drink will have no effect. Badgering him about his drinking will just mean you will see less of him and he will continue to drink. The only way he will quit is when he sees that it is a problem. Do not make excuses for him.
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Old 10-07-2009, 10:37 AM
 
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For an average male adult a bottle of wine over four hours is not all that much booze. Any chance that he is taking other medication(s) that is exacerbating the effects? Or is he pounding down the bottle in the first 15 minutes and then chilling on the effects?
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