Women in San Francisco (Berkeley, London: motel, high income, job)

[skatealoneskatetogether]

Well your a mod and an intersting one so its okay for YOU to hijack a thread. That being said, you cant find a jewish man? Hell come to berkeley. They seem to have planted themselves well "in my neck of the woods". But as far as SF men goes you do have to give them a break, the way woman are in that city its hard. sf woman act as if they want a man, but than they list an abundance of female qualities that they want in a man. It's like jesus make up your mind and be a lesbian or be straight. Or find a woman with a ****-on. My question about SF is WHERE ARE THE WHITE WOMEN AT?!?!?!

[perszona]

I am a European woman living in SF for 10 years now. I have many male friends in SF, both American and from other nations, and we all seem to think that SF women tend to be stuck up, cold and not too good looking if you compare them to some other places (Brazil is a good example, yes). But, I have seen some really gorgeous girls at the Berkeley Campus... I am not jocking! But mostly, women here seem to think that it is enough to be okay looking and have a decent family background to be spoiled to death - and if you are a man with not much money or one with any facial hair, forget about women in SF .

[skatealoneskatetogether]

i agree perszona i think alot of it comes from the good family backround that makes them feel entitled to be spoiled. now pleasanton thats where some real smokin ladies are. the berkeley campus is probably the ugliest uc campus next to santa cruz.

[perszona]

Yeah, well, I meant women not the campus... but now I would like to see other campuses, Berkeley did not seem that bad, but I have not seem many. I also think women in SF get offended if you even remotely suggest that men and women are NOT the same - same rights and all but we are not JUST people - we are but we are also men and women - and there are differences. Somehow this seem to trigger something in women in SF so they get almost angry (they get angry even at me and I am a not a man or a lesbian). Anyway... I am sure there are nice women in SF, too. But as I said, make sure you shave the beard and bring some money.

[skatealoneskatetogether]

Originally Posted by perszona

Yeah, well, I meant women not the campus... but now I would like to see other campuses, Berkeley did not seem that bad, but I have not seem many. I also think women in SF get offended if you even remotely suggest that men and women are NOT the same - same rights and all but we are not JUST people - we are but we are also men and women - and there are differences. Somehow this seem to trigger something in women in SF so they get almost angry (they get angry even at me and I am a not a man or a lesbian). Anyway... I am sure there are nice women in SF, too. But as I said, make sure you shave the beard and bring some money.

thats why i live east of the bay. too many liberals- wierdo's and yuppies .

[jscore]

Originally Posted by perszona

Yeah, well, I meant women not the campus... but now I would like to see other campuses, Berkeley did not seem that bad, but I have not seem many. I also think women in SF get offended if you even remotely suggest that men and women are NOT the same - same rights and all but we are not JUST people - we are but we are also men and women - and there are differences. Somehow this seem to trigger something in women in SF so they get almost angry (they get angry even at me and I am a not a man or a lesbian). Anyway... I am sure there are nice women in SF, too. But as I said, make sure you shave the beard and bring some money.

You pretty much hit the nail right on the head! I'm also originally from Europe, and I do agree with all your points.

[gizmo980]

Originally Posted by skatealoneskatetogether

Well your a mod and an intersting one so its okay for YOU to hijack a thread. That being said, you cant find a jewish man? Hell come to berkeley. They seem to have planted themselves well "in my neck of the woods". But as far as SF men goes you do have to give them a break, the way woman are in that city its hard. sf woman act as if they want a man, but than they list an abundance of female qualities that they want in a man. It's like jesus make up your mind and be a lesbian or be straight. Or find a woman with a ****-on. My question about SF is WHERE ARE THE WHITE WOMEN AT?!?!?!

Well, even as a mod, I shouldn't be breaking any rules - especially as a mod! As for the Jewish guys, there aren't as many here as you seem to think... it's not completely devoid of them, but we are probably less than 2% of the Bay Area's population. Plus I've never really clicked with the Jewish guys in general, which is why I've never actually dated one - so maybe I'm too choosy, which can be a good thing sometimes. Though like I said, religion (or race) isn't a requirement for me, since I'm open to anyone with a kind heart & whatever else I find attractive... it would just be nice to end up with a Jewish man, to avoid the complications with marrying inter-faith.

P.S. If you're having trouble finding "white" women, that's really odd! This area is at LEAST 50-60% Caucasian, so you should have more than enough to choose from. Do you only date white women, or simply prefer them? (not judging, just asking) And what about a white-Jewish woman? My skin is so white it's practically clear, LOL.

[gizmo980]

Originally Posted by skatealoneskatetogether

thats why i live east of the bay. too many liberals- wierdo's and yuppies .

Hmmmm... and that's why I live west of the Bay. I personally love the "weirdos" and liberals, since I fit right in with them! Not quite as fond of yuppies, but I did grow up with/around them, so there's no hatred or anything... just a slight irritation, mostly when I'm on the road.

[d-iron]

Originally Posted by perszona

Yeah, well, I meant women not the campus... but now I would like to see other campuses, Berkeley did not seem that bad, but I have not seem many. I also think women in SF get offended if you even remotely suggest that men and women are NOT the same - same rights and all but we are not JUST people - we are but we are also men and women - and there are differences. Somehow this seem to trigger something in women in SF so they get almost angry (they get angry even at me and I am a not a man or a lesbian). Anyway... I am sure there are nice women in SF, too. But as I said, make sure you shave the beard and bring some money.

My theory about American women is they were brought up to challenge men (work place ,household,laws) I recently saw a poll what Men/Women earned in the 50's to now women gained 70 percent Men gained I think 12 percent. I remember once talking to this girl from London outside a club wow what a difference.

[gizmo980]

Originally Posted by d-iron

My theory about American women is they were brought up to challenge men (work place ,household,laws) I recently saw a poll what Men/Women earned in the 50's to now women gained 70 percent Men gained I think 12 percent.

And yet, we STILL make less money (overall) than men! I'm no "feminazi," but I think any intelligent woman is a feminist - at least in the sense of expecting equal rights, and equal pay for doing the same jobs as men. Do I think we're the same? Heck no, and thank goodness for that! But if we are working in the same job, we should be paid equally to men - period. As for us "challenging" men, I don't think that's an accurate statement... women simply got smart, and realized they were worth more than the place men had us in. Boy, when I hear stories from my older female relatives, I'm awfully glad to be a 21st-century woman.