Hi, Globe. Just saw your reply this afternoon.
I'm very excited at the prospect of moving to WA as I love to explore new places, but I'm also very nervous at the same time as I need to be atleast 85% sure that we'd be making the right move.
As a way of living, don't give yourself the bad with the good -- don't dilute your joy by also choosing fear. Choose joy. If you're "very excited" and "love to explore", then you're already 85% certain -- because you wouldn't be having the inclination if your life weren't moving you, and the universe will show you the very best your choice has to offer you. Choose joy

which actually makes all the learning, deciding and doing smooth and simple
Moving: I actually moved from Japan to Seattle, but I've moved many times in the U.S. and I'll offer you my suggestions. Large established moving companies with nationwide operations are, in my experience, the only truly reliable guarantee that you will ever see your stuff again. That would include Atlas, Allied, Continental. Long before you make a decision about moving companies, investigate each of the ones you're considering with the Better Business Bureau, and with the Attorney General's office in your state; the AG's office in WA also would be a terrific idea. All those phone numbers can be found by Googling. Every year or so Dateline and 60 Minutes and such programs highlighted people who lost everything they owned to snakes in the grass who absconded with their possessions, or who did highway robbery on them by demanding unexpected thousands of dollars at the destination. When the people couldn't pay, off the trucks went, never to be seen again -- although the possessions would show up at fences (dealers in stolen goods), online sellers, and so forth.
In terms of figuring out the details, if I were in your shoes I'd phone each of the big companies after you check with the AG's office that each has their proof of bonding on file, tell them your story, have an estimator come to the house to check out the volume of stuff you want to transport, and listen to their advice and their estimates, and then tell them you'll think about it and usher them out. I think they'll also give ballpark figures over the phone if you sign away your firstborn that you won't hold them to phone estimates, which are, after all, based only on what you tell them, not on what professional estimators can see with their own eyes.
You'll probably want to pare down, however. Things are mostly just things, right?, completely and forever replaceable, unless your Nanna gave them to you. Even then.... Nanna would love to see you get bunches and bunches of bucks in yard sales, no?
Sightseeing - honeymoon - photography: There is no end. If you enjoy natural visual beauty, there is no end to the possibilities here, because within a half-hour's to an hour's drive in any direction you'll have ocean, bays, sound, lakes, rivers, forests, flowers, agricultural fields, dairy ranches, horse ranches, llama or alpaca ranches, marine animals, wild animals, birds, waterfowl, rural, suburban, city, rain forests, mountains, snow, scrub, and desert. It just doesn't stop, and you could spend a lifetime of Saturdays trying to see it all! Joy
Getting bored: That depends on what interests you. What interests you? I can't imagine anyone getting bored here because the population in the area is large enough and diverse enough and the economic base is thriving enough and the overall creative sophistication of the people is enough that whether you love opera or malls or mountain climbing or quilting bees or video gamerooms, there is quite likely enuffffffff here to satisfy anyone who can live with all the flowers, trees and green that drizzle nurtures!
Family orientation: Most folks here do have children and dogs and cats and houses and in-laws and all the usual acoutrements of family life. Therefore, they demand the best possible from the schools. I am not such a person, so I can't speak from experience about day-to-day schooling. But I can speak from 22 years of paying attention to the local news every day, and to the voting patterns of the locals. What I keep gleaning is that the higher-than-average literate population does a pretty good job of funding the schools and communicating with the boards of education in order to keep things in good shape. Also, The Bill and Melinda Gates Foundation (he, the founder of Microsoft) have begun in many places, including locally, a new type of schooling/curriculum that seems to be increasing the kids' joy as well as their SAT scores. That can only expand in the future.
There's something else worth mentioning. Whether it's Seattle, Redmond, Bellevue, Issaquah, Everett, Edmonds, or any of the other cities and towns in northwestern Washington, there are so many activities throughout the year which are assuredly family-oriented, whether it's a big Start of Boating Season day in May where people (boated or unboated) from all over the region flock to Lake Washington, or Seafair weekend in August, or free entrance for children to the Salmon Hatchery in Issaquah, county fairs with animals, rides and food annually, and bunny ski slopes for children in the winter at several mountains. And the zoo, and the aquarium, and more neat attractions like those that last all year. There are big-name concerts and big-name book-signings, and a pretty much world-class library system. Plus -- any kind of hobby a human can invent has at least a few supply stores here. Joy
Renting: There are zillions of apartment possibilities, even quite near Microsoft where the schools, I hear, are excellent. For some miles all around, there are quite a lot of condominiums (and trees, do not worry), and many people rent out their condos.
Here are two links that are critical to your search:
The P.I. (Seattle Post-Intelligencer daily newspaper; the link says Seattle Times because there used to be two full daily papers, and now the Times publishes on Sundays). Their Classified is where the locals go to find apartments.
NWsource: Classified listings for used furniture, antiques, computers, electronics, household items, pets, garage sales, estate sales, services, announcements and much more in Seattle, Bellevue, Everett, Tacoma and the Puget Sound.
Seattle Apartment Finders is indispensible as another resource for the east side (which designation includes Bellevue, Redmond and Issaquah as the main cities on the east side of Lake Washington, a very large and deep glacial lake which separates the east side from Seattle metro).
Apartment Finders Seattle - We Find Apartments When you phone their 800 number, ask for Betty and tell her you were recommended to her by a past client.
I've used both over the years for various purposes; both are professional and results-oriented.
I realize that lots of young people love Craigslist. As you can see by what I said about moving companies, even though I'm not at all rich I tend to prefer placing the energies of my life in the hands of professionals because I value me, rather than individuals who may or may not treat me with integrity. For example, I buy my cars either from friends or local car dealers, both of whom have reputations to uphold. That's what I do with real estate also -- work with companies with a lot to lose if they screw me. Individuals don't necessarily have anything to lose...
Accommodations: That is, right after you all get off the plane, or out of the car, or however you get from there to here.
You might consider giving yourselves a two-day vacation in Seattle, in which case you can visit the zoo, or Elliott Bay, and the Pike Place Market (the second-oldest farmer's market in the U.S.), or the Space Needle, etc etc etc.
Or you might want to hit the eastside running. IF -- IF you want to start small, geographically, and build a nest before you wander around with camer and cooler, there are several safe, clean and reasonably-priced motels on the east side. HOTELS, however, tend to be more expensive, and who needs marble countertops? You don't need a vehicle to stay at these motels.
Expedia.com, hotels.com, etc etc will help you narrow down.
Getting around: You WILL need a car on the east side, if you're going to look for apartments, or go grocery shopping, or live at all. King County has a brilliant bus system, but it doesn't cover everything, and since almost every resident of the east side has a vehicle the bus system doesn't have to cover everything. So rent a car. SeaTac airport (Seattle-Tacoma International Airport, officially known as SEA when you're working expedia or the airlines) has a counter for probably every car rental agency known to man.
Friendly people: Was it you I was telling that the most important reason I decided to stay here was because the strangers I encountered were so KIND? Stunned me! Canadians are famous for being PUBLICLY polite, and they are. But here there's something softer, gentler, more trusting, more giving in the local character, I think. An openness of spirit. Is that because this was the last covered-wagon frontier and they needed each others' help? Who cares -- people here are just NICE to each other.
Someplace to settle forever: and never "explore new places" again?????? Why would you deprive yourself or your children of exciting possibilities?? Globe, nothing is forever. You will change. Redmond will change. The Earth will change. Everything changes. You don't HAVE TO make a choice based on its being the rightest right in the history of your life. You DO have to make a choice that, based on everything you know up to the moment, looks like a damned fine idea, and if it makes your heart sing then it IS a damned fine idea. But you will change, and later on something different may well make your heart sing. So be it. Flow. All is flow. Joy...
This IS a lovely place to live forever and ever in blue jeans. Many people retire here. Many people who grew up here and went away, come back here to raise a family. But those are THEIR dreams, and your own dreams will unfold and become as you breathe in the air of this healing, nurturing place day after day, year after year.
This has been fun!




Hope this all helps!