PLEASE help - looking for my date (move, dating)

[Bella987]

@flyingsaucermom thanks for your opinion.

[Ruth4Truth]

OP, if he wanted to get in touch with you, he'd go to the library, and use their computers. So we can only assume he's not interested in following up with you.

[flyingsaucermom]

Originally Posted by Bella987

Let's make things clear. My intentions aren't bad. If he is taken then I wish him all the luck in this world. If he's not then I would like to get in touch with him again. However would like to know things for sure to move on. I don't like guessing. And that's all I have to say. Didn't come here to argue with anybody. And like it or not I do have my own opinion about certain things in my life, and sometimes that opinion doesn't match with the rest of the people around me.

Oh man... I would run -not walk- from anyone who's doled out the silent treatment.

It speaks volumes about their state of mind.

[Bella987]

It's nice to hear others opinion, thanks a lot

[LLCNYC]

Originally Posted by Bella987

Let's make things clear. My intentions aren't bad. If he is taken then I wish him all the luck in this world. If he's not then I would like to get in touch with him again. However would like to know things for sure to move on. I don't like guessing. And that's all I have to say. Didn't come here to argue with anybody. And like it or not I do have my own opinion about certain things in my life, and sometimes that opinion doesn't match with the rest of the people around me.

It's been months since you heard from him & you need to know if you should move on?????

And how did you find out he no longer works at that company?


Bizarre.

[Bella987]

Originally Posted by LLCNYC

It's been months since you heard from him & you need to know if you should move on?????

And how did you find out he no longer works at that company?


Bizarre.

Not months. Actually just a week.

Got a message from his company.

[CraigCreek]

Okay, since you got a message from his company, you at least know he's real.

If the company is real, that is. Have you tried driving by it, just to make sure this whole thing isn't a scam?

If it's just been a week, sit tight. He could have been fired or laid off and is embarrassed, might have computer issues, might be moving to a new apartment or house - or he might have someone else, might have moved out of town, might have had or done any number of any other things.

if he's real, and if he shares your feelings, eventually he'll be in touch. Now, long "eventually" is will depend on him - and if you want to stick around that long.

In your shoes, I'd give it a month. If he's not in contact by then - I'd move on.

If he does turn up, I'd let him know you've been concerned and would have appreciated being kept in the loop. Continuing the relationship would depend on his response.

Good luck.

[Bella987]

Originally Posted by CraigCreek

Okay, since you got a message from his company, you at least know he's real.

If the company is real, that is. Have you tried driving by it, just to make sure this whole thing isn't a scam?

If it's just been a week, sit tight. He could have been fired or laid off and is embarrassed, might have computer issues, might be moving to a new apartment or house - or he might have someone else, might have moved out of town, might have had or done any number of any other things.

if he's real, and if he shares your feelings, eventually he'll be in touch. Now, long "eventually" is will depend on him - and if you want to stick around that long.

In your shoes, I'd give it a month. If he's not in contact by then - I'd move on.

If he does turn up, I'd let him know you've been concerned and would have appreciated being kept in the loop. Continuing the relationship would depend on his response.

Good luck.

I know there's a lot of ''maybe'' and ''if'' here but God knows why am I trying to reach him. There's also a possibility that he's been using fake pictures.

Thanks a lot!

Hopefully, I will find out, bad or good news, doesn't matter.

[thatguy950]

Chad strikes again

[Commonproject]

lol why do people not see through troll posts like these