Hi again! I do know what you mean by this. We felt that we were in the 'twilight zone' when we brought our daughter to college and how people treated us. eg. One lady in the bookstore gave us her home phone # after a 20 min conversation, saying if our daughter ever got lonely to come over. Or if we ever got concerned 'just call.' The clerk at the motel saw us checking in after a grueling day of moving and saying goodbyes, and upgraded us to the best room w/ a jacuzzi and said if our kid ever got short of funds to call her for sub desk work, and gave us her card!
Really comforting for a new empty nester. She ended up a few yrs later falling in love and marrying a native WA....
