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Unread 07-08-2011, 03:32 PM
 
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Angry Rad

I have a 13 year old RAD, Bipolar, depressed, impulsive disorder, pyromaniac polish girl that was adopted at age 6. She says the most cruel things and has tried to get me arrested for abuse. She has been in and out of treatment but it doesn't help. I will never again adopt anyone elses problems. I am so irrate with this child. I HIGHLY SUGGEST TO ANYONE WANTING TO ADOPT FROM AN EASTERN EUROPEAN COUNTRY. "DONT DO IT". SAVE YOUR MIND,MONEY,TIME AND KEEP YOUR HOPES UP FOR SOMETHING ELSE. I'm now divorced and the adoptive mother has washed her hands of this child and I'm stuck raising her(polis girl) on a salary of 764 a month out of my 2400 because I had a useless lawyer and the adoptive mother is a money grubbing pig. She has a huge pain medication addiction that I'm supporting. Her two other children of her's are heroin users and the mother just keeps them boys on their drugs BY USING MY HARD EARNED MONEY TO BUY THEIR HEROIN. I am going to give up. Suicide is looking to be very inviting. Already have my plan set out. This girl can torcher her adoptive mother from now on. Just hope my family will understand and forgive me. This little evil ***** tried to burn my house down and my 75 year old mothers house. But the damn insurance company wont pay for treatment. I'm so tired, angry, hurt and in pain and can't keep this stress under control. DONT ADOPT, DONT DO IT. YOU FEEL YOUR HELPING SOMEONE FROM A BAD SITUATION THEIR LIVING IN. IT DOES NO GOOD FOR THEM OR YOU. DO NOT ADOPT OTHER PEOPLES PROBLEMS. I used to be GOD fearing going to church regularly...you know a believer....well not now. GOD is not there. I firmly believe there is no heaven, once your dead, your dead. I served this country faithfully. I now serve daily in a local goverment position and I've seen this crap personally but have not been able to put myself in those people shoes until now. I CANT STRESS ENOUGH.....DONT ADOPT.

To my ex-wife (BKW)....I hope you burn in hell and what comes around goes around.
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Unread 07-08-2011, 04:39 PM
 
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RAD is one of the most difficult disorders. Please do NOT kill yourself. That will not solve anything. Get help for yourself from a therapist who can guide you. The problems your child has are not of your making. Neither are your wife's problems. You need to climb out of the hole. Believe me, suicide effects all of those who love you.
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