I know your posting is old, just wanted to throw in my info incase someone else stumbles across this as well - My son is only 3 and just started preschool, but I can answer a few of your questions
- HomeLink - I looked in to this - call them, they're really helpful! Here's their website and info -
Deer Park Homelink
Commute - My fiance' actually worked on Francis for a few years, commuting from DP. Depending on traffic, and how far down/which way down Francis your coming from, it only took him about 25-40 minutes.
About DP - I moved here a few years ago from Seattle. I can't even tell you how much this transition has changed my life! Everything is great up here - the cost of living, the cheaper taxes, the hometown feel of actually knowing your neighbors and business owners, the wide streets and sidewalks, the LACK of TRAFFIC, and knowing you can have peacefull living just a few minutes outside of the big city of Spokane! I highly reccomend it!