What does a parent do ? ---
When your 6' 5'' son does excellent in summer 11th grade 17U AAU ► Averages 17 ppg (High of 32pts) - co MVP of Team - (easily dunks)~
He is emotionally and mentally at the peak of his game potential-
He returns as a Sr. to High School team(ranked top 10 in the State) to play 'Against' ALL his fellow AAU starting five teamates
(on other teams in Conf) and
'BARELY' gets a chance to step onto the court.!!!
'Coach' has him frimly planted~ ON THE BENCH~
(note-Admittedly so,the Team Does have 3 Div1 signees on the starting 5)
starting 5 are → ♦6' 6' ♦6' 5" ~ 5'11" 5'10" & 5'8'. (♦6' 8" is Hurt) ♦=Div1
He has 3.2gpa, no personel issues, is being looked at by div3 / naia Schools and even when coaches come 'specifically' to watch him play - Coach still gives him barely any time to show his skills. !!!
He has been devastated by all this and demoralized by his coach, who has shown NO positive, encouraging coaches attributes at all..
(and he's NOT the only one being treated as such)
He is now at the lowest possible mental state of mind a young basketball player can be forced into, all, after giving 110% to this team.
He's at the end of his rope- at 17.
Had
I known this would have happened....we,
Like other families last year, would have transfered to ANOTHER school →for PT- playing time.!
(which IS aloud in Sr. year)
WHAT TYPE OF A COACH DOES THAT. ? And what can a Caring Parent do...?
The old addage→"
Don't complain- because you may hurt his playing time" doesn't apply here....'cause he has no playing time.!
But should.