You have been blessed to have had someone do so much work for you, April! As you get older, you'll appreciate it more than you do now.
By the way, it's normal that your family doesn't have an interest. About the only thing kids may appreciate is a good-looking cousin!

Oh...and I haven't bought a single M, D or B Certificate, either.

The short answer to your question about what Sandra Day O'Connor is to your husband is that she is his
first cousin, three times removed.

Now, just in case you or anyone else is interested, here's the longer version:
If I understood you correctly, his mother said that her grandmother and Sandra are 1st cousins. That means that her grandmother's parents and Sandra's parents were siblings. If you think about it, that means her grandmother and Sandra had the same grandparents.
Okay, here we go...his mother's grandmother was his great grandmother. Make sense? Since
she was a 1st cousin to Sandra, that's where we get that first part of the answer. (1st cousin)
Your husband is three generations down from his great grandmother (grandmother, mother, him) which is where we get the "three times removed" part of the answer.
I wonder if I have taken us off topic with my questions so if you would like to talk about it more, please feel free to send me a Direct Message. I'd hate to get in trouble with the Topic Police!
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You're off topic so this thread is outta heeere!" ...

Yikes!