I know you've already heard from me, but my answer to
this question is that I've lived 3 different locations in SW MO in 14 years since my escape from Cali-fooor-nia.
1. Out in the sticks
2. In Springfield
3. At the lake.
If I could live anywhere here, price no object, it would be right where I am, except with a much nicer house.

Timberframe/Log with hickory floors & a wall of windows to the view. Viking kitchen with outdoor covered kitchen/living/dining area. Travertine baths, steam showers/jetted tubs. Boat slip in the back yard.

Etc.
The answer for YOU is going to be a result of really figuring out what kind of lifestyle you want...long term. I encourage you to put on paper: Each place you've lived, and the pros & cons. If you're married, you need to both do it, use two colors of ink. In each place, there's things you like, and things you don't (didn't) like. Putting it on paper is key.
I originally moved to #1 because we were escaping big city life. But after a year, I kinda missed having SOME amenities.

The solution was #2, but after a number of years I really felt like living IN Springfield I could be ANYWHERE.

I had, by then, discovered Table Rock Lake.

Floating around on my air mattress one day I peered up at an old blue lakefront house that caught my interest. It was for sale! I figured out that I could live THERE and commute to work in Springfield in only about 45 minutes.
And the rest is history.
Merry Christmas, m'dears.
