Bolivar, Missouri

[afk211]

katie45 - I'm glad I'm not the only one who felt like an outsider while I lived in Bolivar. My crimes were being born somewhere else, not buying into the "Christian" brainwashing!! It's really sad to hear people who haven't had the "pleasure" of living there talk about how it seems like such a nice little town.

[SimplerTimez]

Hmmm, so if I'm not rich, but like feeding the ducks and don't consider lots of shopping and restaurants a necessity, love cows and bring my job with me I'll be okay Sounds like Hwy 13 would be a concern though for my better half as he'll likely have to drive into Springfield for work.

Do they like organic, tree-hugging, homesteading-type homebody people or would we be considered a bit freaky?

~ST

[afk211]

LOL! Well, the homesteading-type homebody would go over fine. The organic, tree-hugging part might get you branded a "hippie" by the "cowboys," and there is nothing worse than a "hippie." Oh wait. In Bolivar, two things are worse: Democrats and Atheists.

Keep in mind, there are lots of corn-fed, gun-toting country bumpkins hanging out in and around Bolivar. Of course, most of them are much friendlier than the "upstanding" citizens that sit on the various boards and preach God's love to the mere "peasants."

[SimplerTimez]

I can handle the 'hippie' label - and we do eat meat, so we're not entirely alien And since all of my family hails from the Deep South, I'm pretty darn sure that I can hang with the best of the good ole' boys and girls, and most likely learn quite a lot from them since this is a new venture. At the worst, we'll probably give them a lot to chuckle about and poke fun of - but maybe they will feel better when my 4 wheel driving, rebel-flag flying, country-singing cousins come to visit and figure we're alright people after all, even if we are a mite strange

[katie45]

Originally Posted by afk211

katie45 - I'm glad I'm not the only one who felt like an outsider while I lived in Bolivar. My crimes were being born somewhere else, not buying into the "Christian" brainwashing!! It's really sad to hear people who haven't had the "pleasure" of living there talk about how it seems like such a nice little town.

Sadly, Bolivar is NOT a friendly town unless you're just passing thru and spending money. One of the largest "christian" churches in town that brags about helping their fellow man, is the church that hogs all the money, and food, for it's members only. A family who desperately needed help one winter after the husband was laid off his job, was told that the church would donate about $10, and they were told not to ask again (and that the food in the church pantry was to be used for "fun" church dinners). How thoughtful and generous!

[SimplerTimez]

Wow, that must have been hard to deal with. Sounds like your friend had a really rough time there in Bolivar, I'm really sorry to hear that about any people, regardless of religious association.

Community is supposed to be about helping others - but that conflicts a lot of time with American 'individualism' that we prize so much. I hope your friend has recovered and moved on to better things katie

~ST

[katie45]

Originally Posted by SimplerTimez

Wow, that must have been hard to deal with. Sounds like your friend had a really rough time there in Bolivar, I'm really sorry to hear that about any people, regardless of religious association.

Community is supposed to be about helping others - but that conflicts a lot of time with American 'individualism' that we prize so much. I hope your friend has recovered and moved on to better things katie

~ST

Yes, my friend and I both moved north. She is near KC, MO and I am in Johnson County, KS. Much better!

[noelf2]

I lived and went to school in Bolivar, from 8th grade to graduation quite a number of years ago. My sister still lives near Bolivar, works in Bolivar, and loves it. I would never, ever, move back there but I enjoy a visit every 5 or 6 years (it is a beautiful area of the state). I have a few friends still in the area but there's just nothing there for me. Way too boring and, in general, the people are just not friendly. I'm sure a lot has changed over the years, but the city officials always seem a bit corrupt (and I subscribe to Ozarks Newsstand and frequently read the Bolivar Harold Free Press online, for a chuckle). Most of the people that I knew have moved out of Bolivar. Most of those that stayed work for Tracker and get laid off for a few months each year while the facility re-tools for the next years boats. What a way to make a living. There are much better places to live in my opinion.

[dundermifflin]

I have a friend that goes to SBU in Bolivar - She loves the school but she gets sad and bored there sometimes. It is very small - where are you coming from?