Welcome to St. Louis, Dana!
As far as diversity, North St. Louis City is majority black (from my understanding) and South St. Louis is mostly white, but I think both are fairly accepting.
North City has been neglected over the years, but it's on the rise. It's more known for crime, but there are some nice neighborhoods there and some beautiful old buildings.
South City is generally considered safer. Lafayette Square will generally be more expensive. Soulard is a nice area as well and has the farmer's market. Tower Grove has some nice areas I think. I don't believe there's MetroLink to South City, though, just buses.
The Central West End may be more diverse racially, as well as University City (a suburb, not in the city). Clayton is wonderful, too, but it's more expensive and farther from the city core.
Southwest of the city there are some maybe more affluent neighborhoods such as St. Louis Hills, which has some beautiful brick buildings and is generally safe.
The area around Forest Park has some beautiful homes that were built for the 1904 World's Fair. And Forest Park itself is bigger than Central Park in NY. There's also Tower Grove Park south of it and Carondelet Park south of that which are a decent size as well.
Downtown used to be more abandoned, but some of the old buildings, department stores, office buildings, have been rehabbed into wonderful lofts. The cheapest to buy you will probably find is the BluCitySpaces, about a block from Union Station, in Downtown West. It's a building that was formerly a Plaza Apartments building (there are others there that are still Plaza Apartment buildings). I've heard the area can be kind of shady, but I guess the price makes up for it. $80k for a studio, $120k for a 1 BR, and $150k for a 2 BR.
Blu CitySpaces - Downtown St. Louis Condos
There are some condos for sale and some for rent in downtown. They can reach, I think, anywhere from $800 maybe $1500 a month for the very best.
You could check out the Cupples Apartments. They're a block from Busch Stadium and one bedrooms start at $562/month. They also have will give you a special rate if you make below a certain amount (maybe $17k a year, I think, but I could be wrong). The site has contact info. It's possible that they're filled up.
Cupples Station Loft Apartments[id]/6091/
Cupples Station Loft Apartments :: 1023 Spruce Street - St. Louis Lofts
Click to discuss to learn other St. Louisans thoughts about it.
Pets allowed. It's a block from Busch and not much farther from the Arch.
Also check out
St. Louis Lofts, Saint Louis MO for some info on lofts. The site probably isn't up-to-date, but it gives websites for most of the developments, and you could probably search them on Google or something.
Downtown's website
Downtown St. Louis Partnership - Home
st louis, MO apts/housing for rent classifieds - craigslist apartment listings
I only listed a couple of the downtown loft developments, but there are plenty more. So, try some of the links I gave you and think about it a bit, ask around on here, too. Some things I probably can't help you with, since I don't live in STL, but I'll help as much as I can.
I'm sure I probably forgot an area. I don't live in St. Louis, so my perceptions could be wrong, but these are the perceptions I get from talking to residents. If anyone wants to correct me, please do.
I'm sure you'll like St. Louis just fine. The only thing I'd worry about it is city schools, but it doesn't sound like that's an issue for you. And it's generally cheaper to live in St. Louis. And living in New York I'm guessing you're used to weather. The public transportation isn't as good as New York, I'm sure, but I think just getting to work and back it may suffice.
Things to do: Forest Park (the Zoo, Festivals, Outdoor activities), The museums (art museum, contemporary art museum, City Museum (a lot of fun) and some other museums (can't remember them all), Baseball, Hockey, football, hopefully soccer in a couple of years, The Hill (Italian restaurants), St. Patrick's Day Parades (Dogtown and Downtown), the Arch, the Anheuser-Busch Brewery.
St. Louis, MO: Visitor Information & Travel Planning Resources
Some more there.
What kind of job are you looking for? Just curious.