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Old 10-07-2011, 09:43 AM
 
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Default Child sleeping arrangement laws in Texas?

My son goes to his fathers house every other weekend. His father has "I need my mommy disease" and still to this day, at 27 years old sleeps with his mother at night. Now when my son is there for the weekend, he too is put in the bed with his father and grandmother. My son is five years old. I think this its disgusting and they must have some kind of chemical imbalance going on there. Are there any laws to fight this?
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Old 10-07-2011, 10:50 AM
 
Location: Midland/Dallas
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My son goes to his fathers house every other weekend. His father has "I need my mommy disease" and still to this day, at 27 years old sleeps with his mother at night. Now when my son is there for the weekend, he too is put in the bed with his father and grandmother. My son is five years old. I think this its disgusting and they must have some kind of chemical imbalance going on there. Are there any laws to fight this?
This is a joke right? A 27 year old man has to sleep with his mother? You're kidding right? 27 years right?

If that is true I can see why you two are no longer together! I don't know about the law and honestly don't know what to say other than this is not natural and is actually creepy to me. I mean ya, kids that age will occasionally end up in their parents bed at night...our 9 yr old still does it. But it's not encouraged and they generally have their own room. I guess it's good he only has to do this every other weekend. Just explain or encourage him to sleep in his own bed when he's with you and hopefully that will counter the rest of that mess.
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Old 10-07-2011, 11:19 AM
 
Location: Pflugerville
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Does your husband do this b/c he wants to sleep in the bed with his mother, or are the living arrangements such that this is the only bed in the house and they are forced to share or sleep on the floor? I am trying to understand how you would marry and have a child with a man that has such mental issues. Perhaps you are an angry ex-wife and you are leaving something out?

Something about your story is off to me.......it's not quite passing the smell test.
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Old 10-07-2011, 12:05 PM
 
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Never married the guy. Im pretty sure he just wants to sleep with her. When we were dating we lived with his mother and sometimes I would wake up and he would be gone.i would find he had gone and gotten in bed with his mom. We stored dating shortly after this but to late I was pregnant. They are in a 5 bedroom house. I even offered him an extra bed that we had at my current house. You are right it doesn't as up which is why I'm writing on here. Looking for help with this situation. My son does not even come in my room unless he asks me our my fiance. So i assume that must be weird in his head.
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Old 10-07-2011, 12:06 PM
 
Location: Chicago
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Uhm, yeah..... anyone else not buying this?
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Old 10-07-2011, 12:23 PM
 
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If anyone knows of a way I can fix this situation please help.otherwise please stay of the post.
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Old 10-07-2011, 12:24 PM
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Location: San Antonio
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If anyone knows of a way I can fix this situation please help.otherwise please stay of the post.
Seconded by the moderator. Serious replies only from this point forward.
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Old 10-07-2011, 01:07 PM
 
Location: Midland/Dallas
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If anyone knows of a way I can fix this situation please help.otherwise please stay of the post.
If you got custody, then you probably have an attorney. If that's the case, I would run this by them and see what they say about it. Either way, that is your best course of action/advice in my opinion.
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Old 10-07-2011, 01:52 PM
 
Location: Pflugerville
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I am confused why you are asking us. If you feel your child is in danger, and you cannot speak to your baby daddy and get him to put your child in one of the other 4 bedrooms available, then you need to call CPS.

If you feel your child is in danger. I would talk to your baby daddy and convince him to stop doing this, but whatever....
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Old 10-07-2011, 04:36 PM
 
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I believe that you need to call a family attorney. Don't hesitate, do so as soon as you can.
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