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After reading this thread and others like it all over the internet, all I have to say is this:
You guys are PATHETIC BALLESS SACKS OF S.H.I.T!!!
Somewhere along the way growing up, you guys all lost your manhood and balls. And its not just you guys, the entire world is now being emasculated that's why you see guys with "murses" and wearing jeans only fit for women. Now you guys are scared of a 5'3" woman who is weaker than you, smaller than you. And you're letting the "power of the *****" have control over you entirely which is fear of rejection (when you get down to it, all it is is just fear). The worse she can do is say no. And you guys are scared to approach just because of the looks on their faces when they look at you and giving you attitude? Maybe they're stressed, or nervous, you don't know what's going on in a girl's head. You guys are making it all about "YOU". Assumptions are the mother of all F*** ups.
If a girl looks at you, that means she's interested otherwise she wouldn't look at you in the first place. That's when you grow your balls out and go up to talk to her. Even if she looks at you "that" way, step over anyway so that you FIND OUT if shes interested. She's probably just shy, preoccupied or stressed about her day. They're human too you know. If she gives you attitude, give her attitude back. Stand up like a man. Don't put up with her ****. "That's fine if you're not interested or you have a boyfriend or whatever but learn some manners and don't talk rude to strangers next time" is all you gotta say. Show them how strong you are. By letting these biotches walk all over you like that, you done showed them how weak and emasculated you are. How are you gonna protect a girl when you can't even stand up to her like a man when its necessary? You guys make it into one HUGE thing when the chances of a bitchy attitude are tiny. You're probably the types who if a girl does cheat on you, you'll cry for days and not do anything about it except leave the girl.
And to the ToKidd, you're in your 30's and you call yourself kid? You're a man for fricks sake. I can tell from your user name that you already showed the people in this thread how immature and childish your are from your posts only wanting a smokin hot chick and will never settle for less than that in terms of looks. Post a picture so everybody sees what you look like.
Every boy here should post a picture here so we all see if you're worthy of a hot chick. More than likely, you're not what the hot chicks want. They want hot guys, just like how chubby guys get chubby chicks or hipster chicks with hipster guys. People look for people similar to themselves when looking for a relationship.
I'll bet $100 that all you guys complaining are ho-chasing aka cold approaching these girls without so much an invitation to approach via eye contact. And I'll bet another $50 you guys jack off to internet porn, thats why you only want hot chicks. And another $50 you don't lift weights thats why you guys lack balls.
And what type of women are you chasing anyway? Hipster chicks? They're just as rude and pretentious as the men in that sub-culture. Classy professional chicks? Badass chicks that wear those faux leather jackets and tight leggings? If you're chasing those types and you're nerdy looking, of course they won't like you. And while you're cold approaching only to come across certain chicks that make you form the belief all women here are golddiggers, you're going for girls not fit for you and why are you going after those kinds of money-hungry chicks? Ask yourselves that question while you still chase the golddiggers.
And if you expect chicks to start approaching you literally, not gonna happen. That's not the way nature intended it to be. And if chicks do start approaching you, you more than likely came across a masculinated chick and you're standing there waiting to be approached like the helpless little girly-man you are. The gender roles have reversed and you guys are not aware of it. And it was LESBIANS that started the whole feminist movement from the 60's btw. Not the straight women, the homosexual women.
And if you're gonna mention how this guy or that guy got this girl and that girl while being ugly, that isn't you and likely they wouldn't be on the internet like you guys are looking for answers to life's questions that can only be answered while living in the real world. You've all been sold bullcrap from Hollywood and the pick-up artist community (who are themselves nerds) that you can be chubby, balding and ugly and still pull a hot girl. Not like that in the real world.
And if you're gonna pull up proof from the internet about this "issue", don't bother. I've seen all the blogs and forums posts. The numbers are probably only 5000+ disgruntled men and even then that doesn't come close to 1% of the entire male population in the GTA. Even if the number is higher, that's still a small number of men struggling with their dating lives. Think about it.
So that's it, be strong men is my point. And date within your own league until you build up your confidence and bed skills so that you DO pull that hot blonde or brunette you're thirsty for and want to settle into a relationship with. And work on yourselves so that you do attract the chicks you want.
Unless I'm there to observe the interactions, I would never prejudge women. So much matters in the circumstances and manner of approach. Toronto is a much larger city than I've ever lived in. And I've learned over decades that you have to be a bit guarded in the bigger cities. There are a lot of people with agendas in them. Angles they want to play. Or proving something to themselves. Need time for your instincts to kick in. Look at the women who thought "Ted Bundy is a nice guy". Even when he was on trial in Florida. I've concluded that women never NEVER should accept an invite to some guy's room. No matter how low the probability of a problem, it aint worth it. Keep yourself in the presence of witnesses.
At least someone gets it. Some men have no empathy for what women might have went through to turn into these cold b***** as they are called. Not because its in their core nature but because they may have been abused by creeps in the past or who knows what has happened. You can't know everybody's life story just from appearances and behaviors alone.
What does it matter if you're not seeking a one night stand?
Because I need to get an erection?
Supposedly, and I'm sure all the evolutionary biologists have their hypotheses as to why, males tend to be very visual creatures when it comes sexual attractions.
If you're a liberal woman and believe that gay males can't simply just love and have sex with a woman over a man, by just appreciating her non-physical qualities like her personality, then this shouldn't be too hard to come to terms with.
As a biology major I can tell you that in terms of the sub theory of evolution called Sexual Selection females are the most discriminating of the two sexes. And by far. Males aren't too discriminating. So, life is not "so unfair" to the female even if most males would state a prejudice against 260 women standing 5'5" with their heads shaved bald.
In terms of males they must expend energy developing muscle mass to increase their attractiveness to females. So says a physical anthropology professor I had during lecture. So, shoot him if his message is unPC.
I had the impression we were talking about the "friend". And what kind of evening actually requires an erection? The whole idea of the friend was so as NOT to be picked up by some guy with an erection.
I had the impression we were talking about the "friend". And what kind of evening actually requires an erection? The whole idea of the friend was so as NOT to be picked up by some guy with an erection.
I totally agree and I am a woman myself. I moved to Toronto about 5 years ago and haven't made a SINGLE woman-friend. I haven't met a genuine down to earth girl in Toronto as of yet. Most of them are stuck up *******. Country girls are where it's at
At least someone gets it. Some men have no empathy for what women might have went through to turn into these cold b***** as they are called. Not because its in their core nature but because they may have been abused by creeps in the past or who knows what has happened. You can't know everybody's life story just from appearances and behaviors alone.
Who, in this thread, referred to women as "cold *******"?
Besides that, you drop into this thread and start hurling insults at the posters, saying they got no balls, they're pathetic, they're effeminate wimps who carry "murses" and can't deal with rejection. Then you proceed to explain to us poor, pathetic losers exactly how a woman should be approached; you give us a psychological profile of women, and tell us we simply don't understand them and don't know how to read the signs and interact with them properly.
Then you single me out for some reason, telling me my handle is childish for a full-grown man, and them tell me I'm immature and childish based on my posts, and seem to only want a smoking hot chick. The thing is, I don't think I ever said anything about the kind of woman I find attractive, and would like to know what I posted that is immature and childish, and why. I was pretty clear about my situation: that I had recently ended an 11-year relationship with someone, and now that I am single I am finding many women in Toronto to be standoffish and superficial. I am not looking for sex, or one-night stands, or flings, so I don't need your tips on how to pick up women - I'm a confident person and I know I could sleep with as many women as I wanted were that my intention. Living with a woman I loved for ten years has given me more experience with women's wants, needs, likes, dislikes, turn-ons and turn-offs than any PUA out there. But I'm looking for a long-term relationship, not just a fling. I have no desire to pick up girls for sex. I left that kind of thing behind in my teen years.
You seem to believe that these complaints about a pervasive negative attitude many man have noticed among certain women in this city is really an indication that the man is either clueless about women, sexist, or both. You're wrong. Note the female posters who have their own complaints about women in Toronto, and the difficulty they seem to have making friends with other women in this city due to many of the same traits the male steps in this thread were complaining about.
A man like myself, in his early-30's, looking for a serious relationship is at a major disadvantage. The reason is that smart, funny, down-to-Earth women are in high demand, and there are very few of the who are single by the time they reach their mid-20's. On the other hand, there is an abundance of shallow, superficial women with a self-righteous attitude, but I don't care how beautiful they are - I don't want a woman like this in my life, so why would tips about how to "tame" them or "understand" them be of any use to me.
So just to re-iterate, I was complaining that I had not had a date in years, not because I had been out there trying to meet women and failing, but simply because all the women I have met are either a) not my type, b) already in a relationship, or c) have an attitude and personality that I find offensive. I have met many great women who have become my friends and colleagues, but I have not met a single woman in three years in this city that actually made me feel something, and who I would want to date.
Why you've taken such an issue with people posting their negative experiences with women in Toronto is beyond me. Why does it bother you so much?
"Note the female posters who have their own complaints about women in Toronto, and the difficulty they seem to have making friends with other women in this city due to many of the same traits the male steps in this thread were complaining about. "
Awww he mentioned me :P
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