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Ya.. Wow. I just read an 8 page thread much of which was guys complaining about how hard it is to get laid in Toronto. Geez, and guys wonder why women don't swarm around "giving off signals"? I was unfortunate enough to be born a less than attractive male so I can't say for sure what it's like for attractive females but I can imagine that if I was born a halfway attractive female and every second guy that I don't even know was looking at me with sexual intentions then I would avoid eye contact at all possible costs as well.
I would be happy if a girl would even consider seriously going out with me much less going straight from "hi, nice shoes" to "wanna ****?". Besides, looking into the eyes of a woman that truly loves you would(imo) be a far greater feeling than sex could ever fulfill.
Sex has been shown to be of critical importance to people's well-being, especially for men.
So if some men are unable to find a sex partner, is it any surprise that they would very displeased by this fact?
The OP deplores men "going straight from 'hi, nice shoes' to 'wanna ****?'," with the implication being that it is such behavior that causes some men to have difficulty finding a sex partner. This is obviously not true at all. One need not be so boorish to have difficulty.
"Sex has been shown to be of critical importance to people's well-being, especially for men."
Seriously, is that a scientific fact there Einstein? I'm fairly sure that women don't like being treated like sex objects, excluding the sluts/gold diggers of course. So unless most women above "2/10" are those things then it stands to reason that guys that only want women so they have something to Fk may have more difficulty than those that want women as love partners. Unless all the movie's I've watched are just bull**** and all women out there are sex crazed sluts that just wanna get stuffed and enjoy one night stands.
"Sex has been shown to be of critical importance to people's well-being, especially for men."
Seriously, is that a scientific fact there Einstein? I'm fairly sure that women don't like being treated like sex objects, excluding the sluts/gold diggers of course. So unless most women above "2/10" are those things then it stands to reason that guys that only want women so they have something to Fk may have more difficulty than those that want women as love partners. Unless all the movie's I've watched are just bull**** and all women out there are sex crazed sluts that just wanna get stuffed and enjoy one night stands.
Wanting a sex partner does not mean that one is going to treat women like sex objects, or that one only wants women for sex. A man can be as idealistic in this area as you wish, chances are he will still be unhappy if he is not having sex.
So say that there is a man who doesn't believe in sex without love, and who treats women with utmost respect. If he finds that he has a hard time meeting women, and so lives a loveless and sexless life, he will probably be unhappy.
So it is quite natural to be unhappy if one is not having sex.
It is quite surprising that anyone would want to argue with this.
And the OP on that thread and a few others just sound like players to me. I mean wanting sex as part of a relationship is one thing but getting mad because you can't "get laid" as easily in one place as another just sounds like you're looking for one night stands.
I as being a guy myself can attest to having gone my entire life without sex and yes I am unhappy but not because I can't have sex. It is mostly because I am alone and no one that I'd really like to hang out with or women that I'd like to go out with will have anything to do with me. I could/would go the rest of my life without having sex if it meant I could have one person in my life that would be my other half and never hate me or get sick of me or treat me badly. Sex is such a simple thing, I can rub one out in 30 seconds if I wanted then bam it's back to my unhappy life. Guys that live their entire life for sex or those perverts that destroy their lives in order to fulfill their sexual desires just make me sick. It just goes to show how little self discipline and self control they have.
What really makes me sick is that people like the OP in that thread are the kind of guys that women will throw themselves at and then these same women get tossed aside after to make room for the next woman the guy is gonna use to get laid and yet these women wouldn't have nothing to do with me, a guy that'd actually treat them with respect. Am I missing something? Are all women just sluts looking to get laid themselves? Guess I watched too many Disney movies growing up..
And the OP on that thread and a few others just sound like players to me. I mean wanting sex as part of a relationship is one thing but getting mad because you can't "get laid" as easily in one place as another just sounds like you're looking for one night stands.
I as being a guy myself can attest to having gone my entire life without sex and yes I am unhappy but not because I can't have sex. It is mostly because I am alone and no one that I'd really like to hang out with or women that I'd like to go out with will have anything to do with me. I could/would go the rest of my life without having sex if it meant I could have one person in my life that would be my other half and never hate me or get sick of me or treat me badly. Sex is such a simple thing, I can rub one out in 30 seconds if I wanted then bam it's back to my unhappy life. Guys that live their entire life for sex or those perverts that destroy their lives in order to fulfill their sexual desires just make me sick. It just goes to show how little self discipline and self control they have.
What really makes me sick is that people like the OP in that thread are the kind of guys that women will throw themselves at and then these same women get tossed aside after to make room for the next woman the guy is gonna use to get laid and yet these women wouldn't have nothing to do with me, a guy that'd actually treat them with respect. Am I missing something? Are all women just sluts looking to get laid themselves? Guess I watched too many Disney movies growing up..
It sounds like you are having a hard time dating in Toronto. Do you meet women often and they just don't take to you, or do you have difficulty even meeting them?
You ever noticed the pattern that the more educated a city it is, the more womanizing men bloggers get all uptight and complain about how hard women are there? Maybe you're trying to hard for someone that's read a book at some point.
Of course guys want to score sexually ... we instinctually want to "sow our wild oats" ...
However, I think I understand where the OP is coming from. Women want to be treated with dignity and respect. They are more than just mere sex objects. For the most part they want to be courted, wooed, romanced, admired, listened to, and called within the next day or two. If you're not willing to make that investment, then hire a hooker for $100 or stay home and look at internet porn.
It sounds like you are having a hard time dating in Toronto. Do you meet women often and they just don't take to you, or do you have difficulty even meeting them?
Well, things are difficult for a guy that don't smoke, drink or do drugs. The first thing that anyone will tell you for meeting women "go to a bar.". Ya cuz I really want to meet some tanked broad in a loud smoke filled atmosphere, ya my dream...
I've tried online to no avail. I agree with number 11. on this link as I have experienced it first hand 15 Reasons Why Toronto Is The Worst City In North America For Men
I have talked to women online and I say one thing a bit off and all of a sudden I am promptly filed into the out box. Most women won't even talk to me because either A. I post a picture and they don't find me attractive enough or B. I skip posting a picture because of 'A.' and they won't talk to me because I don't have a picture posted or they want a picture right away. Even the ones that claim to not be judgmental end up showing their judgmental side at some point. There's 2 types of women it seems, the judgmental types that will tell you that they're shallow off the bat and the judgmental types that will hide being judgmental as if their life depended on it. The furthest I've made it with a girl online was one that seemed to only want to be friends online(even though we live in the same damn city).
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