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As disgusting as this sounds, I expect that there are plenty of others that engage in such behavior...every day. No cure for stupid.
My story goes 2 ways.
Yes,I knew me and the first guy wanted to have sex.
Iwas well aware of that. It seemed more fun when I was "tipsy".
I guess it turned in to rape when the others had sex with me when I was passed out?
I diidnt know them,had never seen them in my life up until that point.
The story of Kumbe Ginnane. Former university student in Colorado, and also an African-American male that recieved oral sex from a white female student on campus in 1992. No intercourse - just oral sex.
Weeks later he was charged with "rape" because she was drunk and he spent over 7 years in prison. To this day, he is a registered sex offender and he his life was destroyed.
This kind of thing happens all of the time in the United States.
Almost every single woman that the cops have called in an official rape exam was intoxicated (alcohol, drugs, or both).
So clearly you can claim rape if you've been drinking.
I think the other lesson here is the danger of drinking/using drugs outside of a safe environment (or even at home but alone...even with a guy you supposedly know and trust).
This is like someone going to an ATM machine at 11pm in the worst part of town, getting mugged, then asking "What did I do wrong????"
I didn't do anything wrong. I have every right to be in any part of the city at any part of the day and take money out of an ATM. The mugger is ALWAYS wrong. I could be pooping gold bars out of my butt and vomiting cash into the gutter...but if someone else takes it, they are ALWAYS the one who is wrong.
Now...are there things you can do to prevent being the victim of crime? Yes. Would you be wise to do so? Yes. But are you WRONG if someone victimizes you? No.
nobody is trying to blame the woman, but honestly, why would you put yourself in a situation like that? And to answer the original post, yes it is illegal and immoral. Just sayin'
Almost every single woman that the cops have called in an official rape exam was intoxicated (alcohol, drugs, or both).
So clearly you can claim rape if you've been drinking.
I think the other lesson here is the danger of drinking/using drugs outside of a safe environment (or even at home but alone...even with a guy you supposedly know and trust).
Very true. It's just a reality for women. They put themselves at risk even if they're at home. Drinking too much, without fear of a rape consequence, just isn't an option for women imo.
What kind of question is this and why do you want to know?
Because I was in a situation like this. I went over to a guy's house and he insisted that I drink liquor to loosen up. He was trying to take advantage of me for sure. I didn't drink anything but I wondered if I had taken the drink and we had sex would it had been rape. Some say yes, and others say no.
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