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Clearly it does not matter whether we live in a big city or a rural community, the same insidious crimes are happening everywhere -- hopefully the police are successful in finding this person:
Clearly it does not matter whether we live in a big city or a rural community, the same insidious crimes are happening everywhere -- hopefully the police are successful in finding this person:
That happened to one of my sons when he was still quite young (approx 10), he ran up the nearest driveway...there were two men in a little car, and they had little bags of candy made up (no, it wasn't halloween) and they asked him if he wanted some, he said no and backed away, so they threw it out the window...he was very upset when he got home (shortcut through the back), I drove over to where he said it happened and found the bag of candy still there......sometimes I wonder how our lives could have been forever changed had my son gone to them...then the thinking becomes ugly, so I thank my lucky stars and put the thoughts out of my mind.....that's why it's sooooo very important the we teach our young not to approach any strangers in their cars (maybe they're asking for directions, whatever), and also to be aware of who's around them.
That happened to one of my sons when he was still quite young (approx 10), he ran up the nearest driveway...there were two men in a little car, and they had little bags of candy made up (no, it wasn't halloween) and they asked him if he wanted some, he said no and backed away, so they threw it out the window...he was very upset when he got home (shortcut through the back), I drove over to where he said it happened and found the bag of candy still there......sometimes I wonder how our lives could have been forever changed had my son gone to them...then the thinking becomes ugly, so I thank my lucky stars and put the thoughts out of my mind.....that's why it's sooooo very important the we teach our young not to approach any strangers in their cars (maybe they're asking for directions, whatever), and also to be aware of who's around them.
For what it is worth, when my kid was small I didn't want to alarm him, but I did tell him that no adult should ever approach him about lost puppies, candy, video games, etc. Adults don't need help from children. I also told him that his parents were the strongest people imaginable, and that threats against us were lies. ( In case of some sick freak trying to threaten him with threats against us)
I'm glad your kid trusted his instincts, Purehuman.
What a shame that we have to arm our children with knowledge like this.
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Do you remember the young single mother and teacher that was killed last year?
Adult newspaper delivery guy called her to say he has car trouble, so she went to help, she had her baby with her, obviously. Ends up that guy *and his wife kidnapped her from where they met, and killed her. At least they left the child alone but good grief the world we live in.
They were caught right away, he was late for work/other job.
**Actually not sure if he was still delivering her paper or used to.
Could they make that stick? Is "luring minors" a crime where you live? I'm not sure we have that statute here, at least I've never heard of it being used. ( I'm not in LE so I don't know for sure)
I think the attempted kidnap could be a stretch unless someone was physically touched, but again, just my uneducated opinion.
I found a little lost girl once, she was about three years old. She was wearing a flimsy nightgown and it was 37 degrees out. I parked my car and went and physically picked her up because I did not want to be seen putting a small child in my car. Sad world we live in where you have to be mindful of appearances while helping someone.
LE was suspicious of me at first after I called them. They later thanked me and returned the coat I put on her.
She's fine, by the way. Still lives in the neighborhood.
Glad the kids trusted their instincts and beat feet out of there.
Disclaimer:
I shall ONLY speak from California law, for I do not know any other.
MAYBE, they might be charged with nothing at all. It is true, it is possible on this investigation, no crime has been committed. However, at least there is a possibility, through the investigation, the suspects would be identified. From there, alot could be done.
On the other hand, based upon what the kids said, what the SUSPECTS said, and a whole lot of of other factors, POSSIBLY a charge of annoying and molesting a minor under the age of 16. Of course, again, depending upon statements, you might be able to make a case for attempted child molest. All depends upon the investigation, etc.
The article included readers comments, something I always read if the news paper provides commentary. The incident apparently happened on school grounds. One poster said he was a father of boy on the soccer team and read it in the paper, the school never sent out a student/parent alert.
Surprising, a couple posters were bent out of shape at the thought the offer for a ride was anything more than a nice gesture.
As far as I can remember, strangers offering rides has been a red flag for at least 30 yrs if not longer.
Location: Vermont, grew up in Colorado and California
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Originally Posted by Summerz
Do you remember the young single mother and teacher that was killed last year?
Adult newspaper delivery guy called her to say he has car trouble, so she went to help, she had her baby with her, obviously. Ends up that guy *and his wife kidnapped her from where they met, and killed her. At least they left the child alone but good grief the world we live in.
They were caught right away, he was late for work/other job.
**Actually not sure if he was still delivering her paper or used to.
I GOOFED
They plowed her driveway and it was early this year.
Just wanted to clear that up,,,not sure where I got the paper route idea...
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