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Old 07-04-2010, 02:13 PM
 
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I don't sense deep affection between them. I see Jason trying to placate her a lot, but I can't think of any moments where I saw Betthany being really loving toward him. I feel she treats him as someone who plays a role in her life. I don't think he is gay though. I've never had that vibe from him. I think Betthany is too self-absorbed to be truly loving to another person. I am sure she feels like she "loves" Jason. And that might be enough for him. But there is something missing imo.
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Old 07-04-2010, 03:58 PM
 
Location: NJ
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I don't think Jason is gay. I don't think he's untrustworthy either.

Their not seeming to love each other has nothing to do with their not hugging and kissing on camera.

It has to do with the fact that they rarely have anything nice to say about each other.
I doubt he is gay either.

I don't know what it is.. the way they look at each other; the lack of "I love you"; something is off. Yeah, could be hormones & stress. I don't know her from NY housewives so I have nothing to compare it to.
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Old 07-04-2010, 04:35 PM
 
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oh geez. every couple isnt going to be all huggy, kissy, touchy feely towards each other 24/7. maybe they save that part of their relationship when the cameras are off. i, for one, KNOW you can love someone without being up under each other, staring off into one anothers eyeballs lol. i've been deeply inlove, but i still like "my bubble". I enjoy, and rather have, a relationship full of clowning and laughing than constant mushiness. I've always enjoyed the loving relationships where my partner and i are like best of friends this is the kind of relationship it seems that bethenny and jason have. Although, I must admit that i was very skeptical of jason when i heard about him and then saw him on RHNYC.
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Old 07-04-2010, 08:30 PM
 
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I think Betthany is too self-absorbed to be truly loving to another person.

I don't think she's too self absorbed to be truly loving to another person.

I think she was never truly loved as a child and never learned what love really is. How can you "love" when you were never taught what "love" is?

She's talked about her childhood a lot and I can totally relate to her.... I never had love in my life or my childhood, grew up in a very abusive environment. I never felt cared for or safe or protected or loved.

I never, ever knew what love was until I had my daughter. She taught me was love is.
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Old 07-04-2010, 11:21 PM
 
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oh geez. every couple isnt going to be all huggy, kissy, touchy feely towards each other 24/7. maybe they save that part of their relationship when the cameras are off. i, for one, KNOW you can love someone without being up under each other, staring off into one anothers eyeballs lol. i've been deeply inlove, but i still like "my bubble". I enjoy, and rather have, a relationship full of clowning and laughing than constant mushiness. I've always enjoyed the loving relationships where my partner and i are like best of friends this is the kind of relationship it seems that bethenny and jason have. Although, I must admit that i was very skeptical of jason when i heard about him and then saw him on RHNYC.
As I already stated, my opinion has nothing to do with their lack of huggy, kissy, touchy, feeliness.

I don't see much clowning and laughing between Jason and Bethenny either. And I don't even get the best friend vibe from them.
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Old 07-05-2010, 10:12 AM
 
Location: New Orleans
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Being a member of "the family",
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I also don't get that vibe off Jason. He's a pretty boy, yeah, but I don't think he's on my side of the fence I actually think he's done a good job of not trying to be exposed on camera. I will say, though, I was a little concerned about them getting married so quickly. I know they both wanted to be married before Bryn arrived--nothing wrong with that as I'm sure it's happened quite a bit. Perhaps it was a little too fast...but I think they'll be fine. Jason's already communicated his fears of her being a runaway bride and that he's not trying to have that happen.

LOL! I call it 'the family' too

Jason is so delicious. Bethenny is lucky to have him. He's the yin and she's the yang.
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Old 07-05-2010, 06:53 PM
 
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I don't think she's too self absorbed to be truly loving to another person.

I think she was never truly loved as a child and never learned what love really is. How can you "love" when you were never taught what "love" is?

She's talked about her childhood a lot and I can totally relate to her.... I never had love in my life or my childhood, grew up in a very abusive environment. I never felt cared for or safe or protected or loved.

I never, ever knew what love was until I had my daughter. She taught me was love is.
i agree with this also! good analysis
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Old 07-05-2010, 07:38 PM
 
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I thought Bethany came over much better this week.
She really is right in saying that it was Jason who wanted the bigger wedding. I don't blame him for being wary, but he really should have helped more.
I felt so bad for her about her family not coming to the wedding and I do think Jason was very supportive of her with that.

I really hope for them that they can make their relationship work!
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Old 07-08-2010, 12:15 AM
 
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you all are cracking me up with the "they don't look like they love each other, he's gay, wants to be a star..............." stuff

They show as much affection as most people do in front of a camera and as much as I want to see. I can't stand all that kissy,smoochy crap and seriously Bethenny isn't some young,never met a gay guy girl..............she's been around the block a few times.


They seem very much in love--to me.
He doesn't seem gay-to me.


You guys have every right to think,say and feel what you do. I just don't see it that way-at all.
I agree. Bethenny had a rough time in early life, that can make it difficult to show people how much you love them, but it doesn't mean you don't love deeply. It's also important to note that they are going through a very stressful period, getting ready for their first child and planning a wedding while maintaining their normal workloads, there isn't much time for just having fun together. Weddings especially seem to make people crazy, I've seen friends have daily breakdowns over wedding planning, I wouldn't judge anybody by how they are during wedding planning, especially if they were also pregnant!

The gay thing just seems silly to me.

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Old 07-08-2010, 09:18 AM
 
Location: NC
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LOL! I call it 'the family' too

Jason is so delicious. Bethenny is lucky to have him. He's the yin and she's the yang.
You are crazy Yes, they are lucky to have each other!
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