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Originally Posted by altlover85
Being a gay guy, I loved that part of your post. The rest of it was great as well.
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Thanks. It works great. Life has taught me that many gay guys can not only tell who's gay, but know who can tell that they are gay--and can immediately sense one's attitude about that. So there is this whole swift, subtle dynamic, where we all know and no one says anything, but I get the most excellent service. They get a great tip, but that's independent of the playful dynamic; that's simply what a great job has earned them, and not why they are doing it (in most cases; hey, everyone's gotta make a living). As a close gay friend once explained to me, situations in which it just is not an issue are rare enough (well, outside particular enclaves) that gay people don't take that for granted.
The sublime irony of it is that I don't ask and they don't tell.