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Old 04-23-2013, 01:37 PM
 
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As I said - I put lots of blame on Vicki for last nights Episode. I do agree, Tamra needs to grow up, well I don't think needs to grow up - She needs to get past her issues and move on - away from What ails her with Alexis and Vicki. If you can't deal with the issues with them, you just stay away from them...


Alexis is no Angel - She should of never went - I mean seriously... She instigates and knows it... What a jacka$$ she made herself look last night.. If she wants to see what true bullying is - I could invite her to go my sons school... Chic needs a rude awakening... If someone was bullying her, then why would she freaking show up at a party with so called bullies... What a airhead...

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Old 04-23-2013, 04:33 PM
 
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As I said - I put lots of blame on Vicki for last nights Episode. I do agree, Tamra needs to grow up, well I don't think needs to grow up - She needs to get past her issues and move on - away from What ails her with Alexis and Vicki. If you can't deal with the issues with them, you just stay away from them...


Alexis is no Angel - She should of never went - I mean seriously... She instigates and knows it... What a jacka$$ she made herself look last night.. If she wants to see what true bullying is - I could invite her to go my sons school... Chic needs a rude awakening... If someone was bullying her, then why would she freaking show up at a party with so called bullies... What a airhead...
I totally agree. If these women were bullying you why would you go. You can't tell me that she is that great of friends w/ Vicki to sacrifice herself. I think she needed face time or she wouldn't be invited back to the show. Speaking of which, why did she come back? She knew she would have to interact with all of the women at some point, right?
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Old 04-23-2013, 06:29 PM
 
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I am 'ing that people don't see what happened last night as bullying. Really?
The women all attacking one person as a pack - throwing her out and applauding as she left? I'm sorry but if that isn't bullying then I don't know what is.

Alexis may be a twit, but that was 100% bullying and I literally can't believe that anyone would justify that behavior. I mean what would make you think it WAS bullying? Violence?
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Old 04-23-2013, 06:41 PM
 
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I am 'ing that people don't see what happened last night as bullying. Really?
The women all attacking one person as a pack - throwing her out and applauding as she left? I'm sorry but if that isn't bullying then I don't know what is.

Alexis may be a twit, but that was 100% bullying and I literally can't believe that anyone would justify that behavior. I mean what would make you think it WAS bullying? Violence?

not really going into this topic on this thread but IMHO-no way was it bullying and if that's the definition of bullying then it goes on on ALL the Housewife shows. No, not bullying.
Alexis was a twit for going there anticipating "bullying"
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Old 04-23-2013, 06:47 PM
 
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I don't really understand why Alexis would attend, especially when she wasn't specifically invited by Tamra. For those who do think it was bullying, why would she attend a party like that when the hostess didn't directly invite her.

Not saying that Tamra played nice, but I'd have a different view of her behavior if she had directly invited Alexis instead of Vicki inviting her.

Why is she on the show?
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Old 04-23-2013, 07:11 PM
 
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I was wanting to see Laurie but after watching this past episode I don't think I want to hang with this show anymore either. They are all ignorant spoiled rich women (or at least pretending to be rich) acting worse than school yard arguing.
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Old 04-23-2013, 07:23 PM
 
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not really going into this topic on this thread but IMHO-no way was it bullying and if that's the definition of bullying then it goes on on ALL the Housewife shows. No, not bullying.
Alexis was a twit for going there anticipating "bullying"
You see I just don't get this. It's SO CLEARLY bullying to me. And yes, it takes place on all the houswife shows. That doesn't make it ok. Even the psycholgist person agreed it was bullying. How can you argue it wasn't?

Alexis should probably not have gone, but that doesn't mean she asked for it. I absolutely loathe victim blaming. Perhaps she wanted to make things right. Perhaps Bravo leaned on her to make good with the women to honor her contract. Whatever. She didn't show up uninvited, it had been cleared with Tamra.
She immediately paid Tamra a compliment and when things started going downhill she tried to stop it by offering to discuss it with them at a different time.

You see it worries me that people see this kind of behavior as ok. Being a twit does not mean you deserve to be verbally attacked by a rabid pack of mean girls.

I would like to know at what point you would conceed it becomes bullying? What what tip you over the edge, because to me it was text book and I would die of shame if my kid ever behaves like that towards another person either as a kid or as an adult.
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Old 04-23-2013, 07:37 PM
 
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Vicki - You know, why did she want Alexis to go with her? She knows no one likes her. Everyone blames Tamra, but I'm going to put lots of blame on Vicki too, given the history with Alexis and everyone else. And Alexis, should of not went...

Also, Vicki was rude to Gretchen over the baby comment...

I think Vicki is just trying to **** Tamra off because - she's friends with Alexis and she's jealous of Gretchen's and Tamra's friendship.

Vicki really needs to do something with her hair - its a rat's nest...
Vicki gets no pass from me. She set the whole thing up, probably trying to even the playing field.
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Old 04-23-2013, 07:57 PM
 
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I watched the fiasco again today. I think the blame for the dinner party from h*** lies everywhere. Let's remember that Alexis told Vicki that she was asking a lot from her. And as much as Alexis gets under my skin, she did make nice when she arrived. Gretchen was obviously irritable and snarky to Vicki, but Vicki calling her stupid was just as much out of line. I actually couldn't believe she said that. Tamra screaming and throwing Alexis out, that was bullying in my book. Anyone coming at me screaming, I'd be terrified!
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Old 04-23-2013, 08:40 PM
 
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Who invited Mr. Ed last night...
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