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Old 10-25-2018, 11:58 AM
 
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its sad, and rather pointless given the circumstance....this is what this drug crisis is causing...people with real problems now cannot get meds...sad....
Toby could get his meds... He just needs to follow the proper procedure. Begging the pharmacist to give you pills because you threw yours away is not the correct way to go about it. Going off the pills cold turkey and then taking them again can be very dangerous. He needs to be under the care of a doctor so things dont get even worse for Toby.

I don't lnow how long it's been simce Toby dumped his pills. Maybe it's been long enough that he could have called in a refill to have the prescription fillled. But to go into the pharmacy while having a nervous breakdown, the pharmacist did the right thing by not giving in to his demands.

 
Old 10-25-2018, 12:18 PM
 
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Toby could get his meds... He just needs to follow the proper procedure. Begging the pharmacist to give you pills because you threw yours away is not the correct way to go about it.
Someone with a mental illness who is off his meds is not considering "the correct way." He's irrational. It doesn't make it right, but it explains why he behaved the way he did. He's not in control of himself.

The way they wrote it is very realistic. If he did everything "the correct way", it wouldn't be an honest representation of mental illness.
 
Old 10-25-2018, 02:22 PM
 
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He wouldn't be able to just get a refill. He flushed his down the toilet. You can't get a 30 or 60 or 90 day refill until close to the 30, 60, or 90 day date.

Also he said on the phone 'I know I have missed a couple of sessions' so he probably was out of refills.

Anyway, Kate knows now, right? That was in the present that he was in bed and she took the call from the doc and told him he'd be going in tomorrow?
 
Old 10-25-2018, 02:49 PM
 
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Someone with a mental illness who is off his meds is not considering "the correct way." He's irrational. It doesn't make it right, but it explains why he behaved the way he did. He's not in control of himself.

The way they wrote it is very realistic. If he did everything "the correct way", it wouldn't be an honest representation of mental illness.
He's old enough, and has been on the meds long enough, that he knows how the system works. I found the scene to be very unrealistic, and did not understand the point of it. It did nothing for Toby's character development nor the plot. The scene would have made more sense if it was the receptionist at a doctor's office or some sort of clinic.
 
Old 10-25-2018, 03:32 PM
 
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He's old enough, and has been on the meds long enough, that he knows how the system works. I found the scene to be very unrealistic, and did not understand the point of it. It did nothing for Toby's character development nor the plot. The scene would have made more sense if it was the receptionist at a doctor's office or some sort of clinic.
As I mentioned before, I contact the pharmacy for refills. If there are no more refills on my accout, the pharmacist calls the doctors office to get approval for more refills. If there's some reason that the doctor wants to evaluate how I'm doing with my prescription before allowing refills, THEN I go to the doctor's office. But that doesn't happen often. So going to the pharmacy made complete sense to me.

It also makes sense that he would think he could handle going off his meds temporarily for the sake of something as important as trying to concieve a child, and underestimating how bad it would get and how quickly. It's not an exact science. The point of the scene was to show that it had gotten worse than he expected it to, and he was reaching desperation.

Completely realistic, IMO.
 
Old 10-25-2018, 04:31 PM
 
Location: Ann Arbor MI
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I have a personal policy that if I find myself nitpicking plots or details on TV shows too much it's time for me to stop watching.
 
Old 10-25-2018, 05:20 PM
 
Location: God's Country
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I have a personal policy that if I find myself nitpicking plots or details on TV shows too much it's time for me to stop watching.
True, after all it's fiction not a documentary
 
Old 10-25-2018, 07:16 PM
 
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As I mentioned before, I contact the pharmacy for refills. If there are no more refills on my accout, the pharmacist calls the doctors office to get approval for more refills. If there's some reason that the doctor wants to evaluate how I'm doing with my prescription before allowing refills, THEN I go to the doctor's office. But that doesn't happen often. So going to the pharmacy made complete sense to me.

It also makes sense that he would think he could handle going off his meds temporarily for the sake of something as important as trying to concieve a child, and underestimating how bad it would get and how quickly. It's not an exact science. The point of the scene was to show that it had gotten worse than he expected it to, and he was reaching desperation.

Completely realistic, IMO.
He was fully aware he couldn't get refills that way, as evidenced by the way he went about asking. Like 'I know you are not supposed to do this, but I did this stupid thing and canya help a brother out here?'. Sorry, no, that is stupid.

He didn't go in asking if there were refills left, he went in knowing there were not. Kevin knows he has to beg docs for scripts. Toby does too, that was just dumb.
 
Old 10-25-2018, 08:01 PM
 
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He was fully aware he couldn't get refills that way, as evidenced by the way he went about asking. Like 'I know you are not supposed to do this, but I did this stupid thing and canya help a brother out here?'. Sorry, no, that is stupid.

He didn't go in asking if there were refills left, he went in knowing there were not. Kevin knows he has to beg docs for scripts. Toby does too, that was just dumb.
Yes, he knew there were no refills left, and he was desperately begging them to go ahead and refill.

Again ... we was not thinking rationally. That is the nature of uncontrolled mental illness.
 
Old 10-26-2018, 01:33 AM
 
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I’m having a hard time being happy for those two mental misfits and their quest for a baby.
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