Real Housewives of New Jersey (series, show, how much, friends)

[rxgrrl]

I think the whole last supper was scripted by Bravo. First of all who has a house warming at a restraunt? The cast of the RHW's always have a season finale dinner and if no one liked Danielle then why was she there? I think Bravo needed something explosive to happen because this group of women were boring compared to the other housewives. So why not whip out the book and there you go you got your drama, fighting, table throwing and F-bombs all over the place, great reality TV right?
What bothered me was that Dina and Danielle let their daughters stay in the room when all this was going down. Someone should have had the good sense to get those kids out of there.

[mimimomx3]

Originally Posted by 18Montclair

I'm sorry, but I lost respect for Jacqueline and her husband tonight.

That People gossip is a fact of life, and if Danielle didnt want scutiny of her life, she should never have done the show. Sticks and Stones honey, get a grip.

If I were Caroline, I would have called out my brother on the spot "How dare you pick this woman over us, your sisters. From this moment on, you are both dead to me".

Jacqueline is emotionally needy and cares too much about what everyone thinks.

Caroline just annoys me. I'm tired of hearing her big,bossy self.

[Torn2pieces]

Originally Posted by rxgrrl

I think the whole last supper was scripted by Bravo. First of all who has a house warming at a restraunt? The cast of the RHW's always have a season finale dinner and if no one liked Danielle then why was she there? I think Bravo needed something explosive to happen because this group of women were boring compared to the other housewives. So why not whip out the book and there you go you got your drama, fighting, table throwing and F-bombs all over the place, great reality TV right?
What bothered me was that Dina and Danielle let their daughters stay in the room when all this was going down. Someone should have had the good sense to get those kids out of there.

I totally agree with everything you've said.

[TrippingJay]

That. was. Awesome!!

I'm almost willing to forgive for an incredibly boring season for this finale!

Danielle continues to be a hot mess but out of all these ladies (and that term applies loosely) she is the only one to acknowledge her scandalous past and owned up to at least some parts. Dina, Caroline and Teresa can't be bothered to do the same even though it's so evident that they are just and shady as Danielle. Who goes around saying "The Family" or carries wads of cash around? I also loved that Danielle basically called Teresa retarded.

I love Jacqueline for finally getting a backbone and standing up to her two loud and crass SIL's. It appears that she's been itching to say something to both of them for sometime now. I think she wanted to stand up to her sisters even more than defend Danielle, which gives a good insight into how overbearing Dina and Caroline must be. Chris was equally awesome and good for him for standing up for his wife and telling Danielle she was welcome into their home.

Caroline was cool when she quieted Dina and told Danielle to say her piece, but she lost major points when she lied and said she showed the book instead of Dina, when it was so clear that Dina was the one who did. Also, her stupid comment to Jacqueline about insulting her parents was just wrong. Caroline sucks.

I could go on about Teresa flipping a freaking table in a restuarant, but considering that she's mentally retarded, I'm willing to let that go. Best line from her was "I'm a classy lady" right before she flipped the table and talked about her sex life at the dinner table. Whatever, Teresa.

Dina is surpassed Teresa as my most hated housewive in NJ. The woman is crass, cheap and a filthy liar. Also, Dina please stop wearing that stupid blue dress, it's not even that cute of dress to begin with! Between that and the Kraft singles, she is the trashiest hw to be featured.

[TrippingJay]

Originally Posted by 18Montclair

Agreed about the house. Ick.

On the other hand, I think Danielle was out of line for bringing the book and then hijacking the entire event with her drama. I can't stand people like that.

Here's the thing, I think you're giving way too much credit to Danielle. This thing was so freaking staged that it's not even funny. What probably went down is a Bravo producer slipped Danielle the book as she entered the restaurant.

The rest of the women could have just ignored her if they really wanted to stat out of Danielle's drama, but the fact is they get off on it as much as Danielle does.

[TrippingJay]

Originally Posted by Bella52

OMG..........what a joke tonight's show was. Theresa talks about having class and yet she was talking about sex in front of the kids at the table and they're all laughing. Could she have used the F word anymore. I felt sorry for the kids.
Oh, and don't get me started with the gaudy new house

WORD, Bella!! I laughed when Teresa called herself a "Classy Lady".

That house is just ridiculous I just rolled my eyes when I saw the seriously fugly front doors!

[sues1]

They are all annoying, Caroline with "the family", who talks like that anyway" Her big protective dog, get a life Caroline.Danielle had no business bringing that book out at dinner, it was in poor taste, not the time or place. Teresa is just nuts, period and Dina is nothing but a *****. Jacqueline is bearable and so is her hubby.

[ElizNJ]

If not for the cameras and tv ratings Danielle would never have been invited to that dinner.

Danielle - Just so very wrong to bring the book. Should have arranged to confront the women privately and not in front of family, especially children. If she felt that angry she should have stayed away. She only made herself look small. Does she protest too much?

Teresa - As hostess, should have taken Danielle aside and asked her to leave, escorted if necessary, as soon as the book appeared. She should have called the shots, acted with some real class and not let Caroline run roughshod over everyone. After all, it was her party and she was ultimately responsible for the outcome.

Caroline - She and Dina are lower class than any of them and really showed their true colors. Why she has to attack Jacqueline is beyond me. She is my least favorite of all -
she seems to get off on acting like a schoolyard bully.

Dina - Should have had the guts (with Caroline) to confront Danielle and come clean. Not necessary to become friends, just clear the air.

Jacqueline - I think she enjoys watching conflict, just not being part of it.

Don't know why on earth Caroline and Dina felt it was their duty to make others aware of the book. Nothing in there is relevant to their own lives. It was just a vicious act to knowingly try and destroy Danielle's standing in the community. They didn't even consider the fact that she has children that would pay the price with her.

These women are a mess - from Teresa's orgasmic reaction to her new kitchen sink to Caroline's obvious pride in her attack dog.

To the next season of RHONJ - Bring it on!

[18Montclair]

Originally Posted by ElizNJ

If not for the cameras and tv ratings Danielle would never have been invited to that dinner.

I know. How stupid was that?

But as stated above, that was probably orchestrated by the show. The book being made known was probably orchestrated by them too.

Danielle - Just so very wrong to bring the book. Should have arranged to confront the women privately and not in front of family, especially children. If she felt that angry she should have stayed away. She only made herself look small. Does she protest too much?

When you are somewhat high profile that tends to happen-sometimes there are jealous people out there and they gossip about you. I personally do not gratify their gossip by responding.

Actually calling out haters sometimes empowers them and lowers you.

Teresa - As hostess, should have taken Danielle aside and asked her to leave, escorted if necessary, as soon as the book appeared. She should have called the shots, acted with some real class and not let Caroline run roughshod over everyone. After all, it was her party and she was ultimately responsible for the outcome.

Nah, Danielle took it to the gutter and Theresa only obliged her.

Theresa is now my favorite RHONJ.

Caroline - She and Dina are lower class than any of them and really showed their true colors. Why she has to attack Jacqueline is beyond me. She is my least favorite of all -
she seems to get off on acting like a schoolyard bully.

I like her devotion to her family. That is all too lacking in today's world. I don't think I'd want to have lunch with her, but who wouldnt want someone like that on their side. Through thick and thin, no matter what.

Dina - Should have had the guts (with Caroline) to confront Danielle and come clean. Not necessary to become friends, just clear the air.

Why does Dina need to clear the air? All season Danielle seemed to be obsessed with her. Puhleeze, Dina should have ignored her during her rant by taking out her cell phone and pretending like she was not paying attention.

Jacqueline - I think she enjoys watching conflict, just not being part of it.

You should get an award for this comment. Hit the nail right on the head.

I think too many people are falling for her peacemaker act.

Seriously, If I were Caroline and Dina, I would put her on my ignore list. Let her know that its not the family that needs her but the other way around.

Im sorry, but I come from a huge and incredibly loyal family and I couldnt fathom a scene where one of my family members is defending someone that is telling off a sister of mine.

As if.

Don't know why on earth Caroline and Dina felt it was their duty to make others aware of the book. Nothing in there is relevant to their own lives. It was just a vicious act to knowingly try and destroy Danielle's standing in the community. They didn't even consider the fact that she has children that would pay the price with her.

I begrudgingly acknowledge this and concur. OTOH, People don't just do stuff like this unless they were provoked. I think the reunion show will shed light on that.

To the next season of RHONJ - Bring it on!

This was definitely more interesting to me than the other housewives.

[IBrakeforTailgaters]

After last night's show, this is what I believe I have to say about the housewives:

Teresa--Don't like her. She and her husband did and said some things that made us question her earlier. We actually think they're part of the Mafia...to carry around that much money is just plain out dumb and questionable. She has no class, and she needs anger management. I guess she felt that she was too good to listen to Caroline's instructions and got shot down in the process. Her outburst--and her talking in general--really were not warranted. She had NOTHING to do with that conflict, so to put herself out there like that was totally uncalled for! If she had actually thrown that party together, I would have been more in her favor because I do think that it was rude for Danielle to start such a fire, but in every season of The Real Housewives, they always have an end-of-season party...it could have been any of them who was selected to host it.

Caroline--I've not really cared for her this season, for whatever reason, and after last night, I'm still torn. I think it's noble of her to take up for her siblings. Honestly, I have two younger siblings, but if a situation like that were to occur, I wouldn't have to say anything or lift a finger, because the two of them can handle their own. She did what I don't have the courage to do...but then again, I'm also a peacemaker I love the way she demanded that they give each other the opportunity to have her say. On the flip side of things, I agree that her comment about disappointing her parents was so stupid. I'm tired of her thinking that the family comes before anyone/anything.

Dina--She's another one for whom I had neutral feelings. Now I'm leaning toward not liking her. I love the comments I read about her being a chicken...that's exactly what she was. She was hiding under people half the argument. The quote, "Don't dish it if you can't take it out" fit her fully! And why haven't we seen or heard from her husband? I understand wanting privacy, but I now wonder if she even has a husband.

Jacqueline--I give her props for what she did. It's about time she got the opportunity to be vocal and to be heard! I'd feel so bad if I were forced to take sides in that situation...and Danielle wasn't even forcing her to do so! I would have thought twice about marrying into that family had I known that the evil sisters would be riding my a%% like that! Her husband is great, too...what a great way to calm things down without choosing sides!

Danielle--She is so my favorite character! I think it was rude for her to start that conflict, but she held her own against every single one of those women! And she was justified. They had no problem talking trash about her behind her back. She went out with a bang, and I was behind her 200 percent! It probably wasn't the best idea to have her children in the room, but I don't remember her using foul language or getting up and acting violently. She must be doing something right because she's got some of the best kids of all the housewives. I felt badly for her all season and I'm glad that she did what she had to do. Otherwise, they would've kept on trash-talking and avoiding her.

I think most people who doubted this season have been converted after the finale...this season has been great! I can't wait for tomorrow's Final Supper and the reunion episode!