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Originally Posted by heartchya
I must be the only person who really dislikes Maci. People say she has it together but it really doesn't appear to be the case. How many college classes has she failed at this point? What a waste of money! She moved to be with her boyfriend not to better herself through school or better Bentley's life. That is very obvious now. If she really wanted to do well in school she should of stayed with her parents so they could help her during these college years.
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Maybe you could help me remember the timeline with this. When did she move? Was it during school? I don't remember her commuting to school except for this season? So she failed those classes while living at home? That confused me.
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I hate the way she handles the Ryan situation. Before she even did some research into why the child support wasn't there or even called Ryan she called her friend and told her Ryan didn't pay child support. That ended up not even being true.
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She should have called him first to ask what was going on.
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She wouldn't let Ryan take Bentley for a bit on his birthday but did offer for him to tag along--fine. So why is it so horrible that Ryan said no on Halloween and ALSO said that they could come over to his parents house. It's the same exact situation. But Maci is the saint and Ryan is the dbag in most people's eyes.
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Where was Ryan vs. Maci and when did he call to ask? Were they 2 hours away from each other and did he call the day of when she told him they had plans for the day? I *think* that was the case (could be wrong). But let's say it was: even if they meet each other half way, that's 4 hours in a car Bentley has to spend. Then Ryan wants him for an hour? Two? Three? There goes most of the day.
Let's say it wasn't: Maci should have brought Bentley over to see Ryan for a while.
With respect to Halloween, Ryan was playing tit for tat at that point. He could have gone and done the trick or treating at Maci's parents thing with his son and said, "ok, he's done. My time".
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The way she throws into his face that she "can take him at anytime" is reason enough that they MUST go to court. ASAP. Once it is court ordered she cannot just take him. The things she says on camera too about Kyle being more of a Dad are kind of horrible as well.
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Ryan should have had custody ironed out the minute Maci moved out on him. Why wait so long?
And if they did have a court ordered custody arrangement...could Ryan have seen Bentley on his birthday if it were Maci's day? Do they get that specific in custody arrangements? Meaning child spends 6 hours with mom and 6 hours with dad on his b-day? He's also 2. He doesn't know what day his birthday is on. That whole issue was more about Ryan than Bentley.
Ryan was a total dirtbag to Maci and Bentley when he was born. That's hard to forget and I didn't see a whole lot of "trying" on Ryan's part - his mom and dad seemed to be the ones taking care of Bentley. Calling Maci a "piece of shiite" in front of their child is low.
If either Maci or Ryan were perfect they wouldn't be on Teen Mom.