good news
i filed the new claim online, but did not put in the info about my 2 month NJ job because the claims rep said i didn't have to. once i finished the new claim, a message came up that i had to call the telephone claims center to complete it, which i did.
the representative confirmed my info (name, date of birth, address, etc) and that i had not worked in NYS during the past year, and then she put me back on my original claim (extended benefits). and she told me to keep certifying each week.
that was it! quick and easy. filing the new claim online took about 10 minutes, and speaking to the rep took maybe 5 minutes, if that.
everything has worked out and i'm so relieved!
good luck to everyone out there, dont give up!