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Old 06-23-2018, 10:53 AM
 
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My family and I are considering a move to Utah from the south east. We have visited Moab several times over the past few years due to our love of Off Road adventures and the gorgeous red rocks. We have visited AZ and NM also but being a family with a 10yo and a 17 year old vacationing often is difficult so we have only visited these places in June and July. We have lived in Northern NJ but most of our adult life has been spent in South Florida and now the Charlotte NC metro area. I have several friends who live in Moab from other parts of the country and one who lives outside of SLC who happens to be a "non-practicing". We are not really CONSERVATIVES but we are not really liberal either, I guess if you needed to place a tag on us more like Libertarian equally hated by both sides

My son who is now 18 is returning to Florida in August to attend the University of Central Florida and that is our que now that he is out of HS to relocate before our 10 year old STARTS HS so we don't disrupt his schooling. I am 51 and would rather not relocate when I am close to 60 and start a new job.

I am concerned... I had a couple of people tell me if we are not LDS others will generally be friendly to us but that is it, not included or accepted. The part that really worries me is what one person said and I am trying to see if it's a OPINION or fact. Our son would feel the brunt of it because he would make friends in school but not be invited to any activities like parties, outings, sleep overs etc. I don't want our young child to feel like an outcast.

We have not visited any other part of Utah than Moab having driven in once from Grand Junction on 191 and in/out via Farmington NM the other times. I am looking for airfare now for next month to fly into SLC and spend a week driving the Western Corridor between Vegas and SLC. A week is not a lot of time so I am here to research and try to make the best of our time. My wife is a nurse administrator with 20 years of experience so work is not usually a problem, I have a specialized job after working in EMS and Law Enforcement in my young years. I have spent the last 27 years in communications and am an engineer with a large cellular company, my job is pretty rare. I have a SLIGHT possibility of getting a project management position that would be home based so I could live anywhere with good phone and high speed internet service. We want to be somewhat rural so we can own between 1.5 to 5 acres downsizing from 28 now but still be close to good schools and the town/city options. We have a town now about 16 miles away and the City of Charlotte about 50 minutes away and it's a PAIN. St. George seems good because of it's proximity to the hotbed of off road locations and there are some competitive shooting venues somewhat close from what I hear.

I would love to hear some other opinions, especially about the schools and what sort of issues my child may run into as a Pre-Teen and Teen in the area. I guess we as adults are important too but he is my #1 concern then we come second. We have lived here for 12-13 years now and it's not what we thought it would be, I DON'T want to make that mistake again starting to feel like a Gypsy. We have never really developed a bond with an area or people since we seem to move every 12-15 years.
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Old 06-23-2018, 11:26 AM
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I am concerned... I had a couple of people tell me if we are not LDS others will generally be friendly to us but that is it, not included or accepted. The part that really worries me is what one person said and I am trying to see if it's a OPINION or fact. Our son would feel the brunt of it because he would make friends in school but not be invited to any activities like parties, outings, sleep overs etc. I don't want our young child to feel like an outcast.
If your child makes friends in school, he will be included in parties, outings, sleep-overs, etc. If you were to move to somewhere in the Salt Lake City area, his and your chances of developing friendships will probably be greater than if you were to move elsewhere in the state. You say how much you love the red rock of Southern Utah, but again, I believe that St. George has a significantly higher ratio of LDS to non-LDS than does Salt Lake City and the surrounding areas. And seriously, you can get to any of Utah's national parks in easily under 5 hours. You and your wife would also be more likely to find employment in Salt Lake City than elsewhere in Utah.

My husband and I have lived in Utah all our lives and are now retired. We are LDS. I grew up having both LDS and non-LDS friends. Religion honestly didn't make any difference to us or to our parents. I raised two kids in Salt Lake City (Cottonwood Heights, specifically) and they had both LDS and non-LDS friends growing up. On my street, there are twelve households. Four are LDS and eight are not. We all get along great and have an annual barbeque at one of our homes. Nobody cares about anybody else's religion (which, on our block alone is LDS, Catholic, Jewish, Muslim, and ????). Same with ethnicity. We have Hispanics, Middle-easterners, Asians and, of course, your good old run-of-the-mill Anglos.

You may have to extend yourselves a bit beyond your comfort level, but it's definitely workable. For instance, this past January, I went into St. Marks Hospital Women's Pavilion for an annual mammogram and a bone-density screening. The technician was a woman about my age. She and I got to talking and by the end of the half hour I was there, clicked so well that she asked me if my husband and I would like to get together for dinner and a movie sometime. I was kind of shocked. I mean that kind of thing doesn't happen every day. But I said yes, and we've become friends. We're going to the Utah Arts Festival as couples this afternoon and then out for dinner. As it turns out, they are transplants from Philadelphia and have been here five years. They came primarily for the skiing. They're Jewish (they volunteered this information); she's originally from Brooklyn and they met while living briefly in Florida. While I would probably have not been outgoing enough to do what she did and ask someone who was practically a stranger if they wanted to socialize, I'm glad she did.
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Old 06-23-2018, 11:33 AM
 
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Thank you.. yes I did read your post about the movies and how they volunteered this information. We grew up in the Metro NYC area but even as young adults we knew we did not fit in as the majority even in the 80's and earlier of the area was VERY liberal. We moved to FL and it was nice but after a few years more and more YANKEES like us moved down but unlike us they started changing Florida to what we left the Metro area over. That was not SUPER bad but the taxes started going up with more of the liberal mentality in government offices and the high growth, then the insurance rates skyrocketed due to so many hurricanes in the early 2000's.

The other reason I was thinking SOUTH was due to the higher temps, we did not care for the snow that much, only to visit and the greater SLC area indeed is colder! LOL Not sure if I would like that day in and out.
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Old 06-23-2018, 02:44 PM
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The other reason I was thinking SOUTH was due to the higher temps, we did not care for the snow that much, only to visit and the greater SLC area indeed is colder! LOL Not sure if I would like that day in and out.
I can certainly understand that. I am told that Salt Lake City's winters are nowhere near as severe as they are along the Eastern Seaboard, but they definitely are not balmy. The extremely low humidity makes them more tolerable, but I'm kind of a winter-hater myself. I always suggest to people moving here that they take up a winter sport. I would imagine that it would make a world of difference in how they felt about winter here.
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Old 06-23-2018, 03:03 PM
 
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Yea I guess since we love ATV’s and Jeeps so much a couple of snowmobiles would be in our future.
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Old 06-23-2018, 06:21 PM
 
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Having lived in NJ prior and now here in UT, I can tell you that the snow here is much more tolerable. I do not like snow and cold by any stretch of the imagination, but I’d take a UT winter over a NJ winter any day. The lower humidity makes them much more tolerable. We don’t get the ice storms like they do.
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Old 06-23-2018, 06:53 PM
 
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That's good to hear.. it's been YEARS since I have lived/worked in blizzard conditions. We get an inch of snow maybe ONCE a year or twice if that and people BEHAVE if like it's a blizzard! LOL When I was young I would ride my motorcycle in snow on occasion, not by choice but sometimes I'd get caught on 3rd shift at the hospital on the bike and snow would roll in. Here in SC we get much more of the ice storms and it's nasty! I don't mind the snow BUT I mind the cold... IF I were to move chances are I would have a job working from home managing projects all over the western USA or country, as long as I have a good phone and internet connection and food I would be set. Only time I would get out is when I am not working which is a stark contrast to my life up to now be it in Law Enforcement, EMS or maintaining a cellular network the core of my job is driving and working outside.
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