
Perhaps this will give you some perspective kiram:
I always idealized NYC for it's vibrancy and culture. I still love to visit and know my way around fairly well. But as Burlington has grown, and as I've become more and more familiar with Montreal, I don't find myself fantasizing about living in NYC any more. There's just so much to do in Burlington now, and it's so accessible to people of ordinary means, that I can't keep up with it all. And when I need to visit a big city - I drive Montreal. I take the scenic back roads and in an hour and 3/4 I'm in "the second largest French speaking city" on the planet. Boston's 3.5 hours away - close enough to take the kids to see MLB baseball games and drive back the same day if you have 2 good drivers!
And people are friendlier here. It'll actually take you some time to get used to people aggressively yielding the right of way in traffic
Perhaps if you can tell us more about your specific interests, we can help you decide if you'd really like Burlington or not. It's one of the few places in the country which works this well for me (loads of arts and culture, a real downtown, 5 major ski areas within a short drive, lots of bikepaths, quick drive to Montreal, a major Jazz Festival, a major folk and traditional music festival, a great symphony orchestra, The Vermont Lake Monsters, etc etc etc) but it might not work for you...
How else can we help?