I live in Rutland City. It is amazingly quiet at night most of the time. There are lots of family-friendly activities and some really good private schools.
Shopping at the downtown farm market gives you fresh vegetables and fruit, locally grown meats, artisan cheeses, and handicrafrs.
Summertime is superb for music lovers of all stamps: classical at the Killington music festival, all other kinds at a variety of open air free concerts throughout the warm weather season.
Rutland's center of culture is the Paramount theater,
www.paramountvt.org -- volunteering as an usher is lots of fun