I'm orginally from NJ... why on earth come back to Virginia? !!

I've been here since the mid 90's... Northern VA is very expensive... lots of jobs, but you can't afford to live here! As for anywhere else in Virignia... hubby & I have looked. Richmond... nah. Lots of the folks from Northern VA are heading down that way. Roanoke is beautiful but too quiet, and I don't think the jobs pay enough... which I think you will find in Lexington too. We are in the process of looking at Charlotte, NC .... but still leaning toward Dallas, TX. Good jobs, low priced housing... Sigh. I miss NJ!