Is DC Dating "Nirvana" for Black Women? (Washington: airport, train)

[BajanYankee]

Originally Posted by DC Bossman

either the whole story is ducktales or Bajan is a bit gullible to believe everything this chick says. Yea she's getting flown all over the country at the drop of a dime without giving anything in return. yea ok

This specific girl is not getting flown all over the country; she does get lots of dates and the attendant free meals, however. I said that if I were an attractive woman, I'd be getting flown out to the All-Star Game in LA next weekend.

Again, for her, it's the ego boost. She enjoys breaking hearts. She wanted to go to Pentagon City one time, but she didn't feel like taking Metro, so she asked a guy who lived in Delaware if he wanted to take her to the mall so they could "hang out and catch up." Of course, he drove down from Wilmington, and when he expressed his romantic interest, she hit him with the "I don't know where this is coming from" line. She loves it. She loves having the ability to drive men wild with desire. She told me that she busted up two guys so bad that they broke down and cried in front of her. This happened to one of them after she rejected his marriage proposal. She takes great pride in telling these stories. And I really do believe her because she always has 5 or 6 male orbiters at any given point in time. She's like a mermaid; she draws guys in with her charm and then drowns them in her lagoon.

And why not do it? Who's gonna stop her?

[The Heartbreak Kid]

Bajan,
These guys are suckers and idiots. If they are allowing her to pimp them out like that, they deserve what they are getting. Personally, the kid does not chase after egotistical chicks. Just not my type.

[btsilver]

pics or it didnt happen.

[BajanYankee]

Originally Posted by ahales

Bajan,
These guys are suckers and idiots. If they are allowing her to pimp them out like that, they deserve what they are getting. Personally, the kid does not chase after egotistical chicks. Just not my type.

I agree. But there are a lot of simps out there. I find it funny that so many women say they struggle to get married when it seems she refuses a marriage proposal from a quality guy every year.

[BajanYankee]

Originally Posted by btsilver

pics or it didnt happen.

I don't see why it's so hard to believe. I've known this chick for a long time. Her game is she's really nice, sociable, and feminine, so dudes get caught up quick. Guys meet her and think, "Wow, I got this dime piece, and she's cool, I hit the jackpot." Everything's cool for about a couple of weeks and then she invites you out to Ben's Next Door to "hang." Once you get there, you find her talking to a "friend" and she introduces the two of you. It turns out he plays for the Wizards. She all of a sudden becomes a little bit harder to reach, but she's always nice, and then dudes, sensing the competition from other men, start chasing after her. She's absolutely brilliant at putting guys in competition against each other. Think about women like Liz Taylor or Carla Bruni. That's what she's like. My friends are always asking about her, and when I say she's poison, they all think I'm hating.

[The Heartbreak Kid]

I have seen more chicks with inflated ego's in the south than here. Maybe, that is just my personal experience.

Let me clarify. I am not talking about I got two Master's and a Law Degree inflated ego. I am talking about all the dope boyz at the club buy my drinks type of inflated egos. If you go to some of these smaller cities in the south, the pool of women is not as big and some of these 7's& 8's get dime-piece treatment.

I haven't seen this in DC and Atlanta. Especially in the ATL. Based on looks alone, the ATL has the best selection of black women in the country.

[Childfree35]

Originally Posted by RaisedWell

You know what's wrong with this thread? The OP is thinking like a man but applying it to women. Most well brought up women don't want to party, party, party through their 20's and use different men to maintain a certain lifestyle at other's expense. At least I didn't. That's being a "ho".

I was in my 20's during the mid-80's and I was a 10. At least that was what I was told back then. Maybe not the light-skinned, green-eyed, wavy haired, mixed race looking 10 that Bajan likes but nevertheless, I was a 10. I was a beautiful brown-skinned Robin Givens/Whitney Houston type with more curves and my own hair! lol

So to answer your original question, NO! It wasn't easy back then and now that I'm single again it's not easy now. And before you Bajan, jump off and think I'm obese in my 40's, I have to tell you that there were times when I wished I was. It seems like the "big" girls get the men to commit. I also date outside of my race. A white man told me once that he could not consider settling down with me because I was too small. I'm a size 10!

Yes sir!

To each their own. You want to be a party girl, then do you. Going to expensive and lavish clubs and events only to pick up a dude. Do it. Trying to find the next one to front your liftstyle. Best believe your rep will get around to these guys. They will kick you around like a can. That chick is this and that.

Some blacks can be so ignorant. I'm pretty, because I'm light or wavy hair or my zip code. I mean really. Like one poster said, nothing, but slave mentally. There is a difference between slim/thick/big ladies. Only mature men would know this.

WellRaised, I'm a 6.

[btsilver]

Originally Posted by BajanYankee

I don't see why it's so hard to believe. I've known this chick for a long time. Her game is she's really nice, sociable, and feminine, so dudes get caught up quick. Guys meet her and think, "Wow, I got this dime piece, and she's cool, I hit the jackpot." Everything's cool for about a couple of weeks and then she invites you out to Ben's Next Door to "hang." Once you get there, you find her talking to a "friend" and she introduces the two of you. It turns out he plays for the Wizards. She all of a sudden becomes a little bit harder to reach, but she's always nice, and then dudes, sensing the competition from other men, start chasing after her. She's absolutely brilliant at putting guys in competition against each other. Think about women like Liz Taylor or Carla Bruni. That's what she's like. My friends are always asking about her, and when I say she's poison, they all think I'm hating.

I'm messing with you. So how did you escape her clutches or are you just waiting for a moment of weakness from her?

[BajanYankee]

Originally Posted by btsilver

I'm messing with you. So how did you escape her clutches or are you just waiting for a moment of weakness from her?

This chick has already been with two of my boys. I don't know about y'all, but I don't do sloppy seconds. We're cool because she was cool with all of the guys in our circle from college. As a general rule, it's not a good idea to date girls who keep lots of male friends.

[WASHINGTON BULLET]

Originally Posted by BajanYankee

Once you get there, you find her talking to a "friend" and she introduces the two of you. It turns out he plays for the Wizards. She all of a sudden becomes a little bit harder to reach

Harder to reach because she has a friend who plays for the Wizards?



The Wizards?