Unhappy Thread II (days, sunshine, normal, forecast)
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If you're referring to me, I'm complaining at my weather. It had nothing to do with other posts on this thread, it's not a reply. That was the origional purpose of the thread, to complain about your weather.
If you're referring to me, I'm complaining at my weather. It had nothing to do with other posts on this thread, it's not a reply. That was the origional purpose of the thread, to complain about your weather.
Well, how about some friendly advice then? Or was it too much asked?
Whatever, I won't say nothing personal anymore. No point in sharing, when the only response is "we had 88F instead of the 89F forecasted".
So I was walking to the corner store today and I encountered my almost neighbour. She looked stunning as always. Long slim legs, fit, around 168 cm, and beautiful as hell. Blonde, though. And maybe a bit out of my league, not that I've worried about that earlier anyway. We've exchanged a few words earlier with her now and then, and she's really nice, but... maybe a bit odd. She's an artist, painter, and she has a brother who comes around frequently. Sometimes when I'm going out I've heard furious fights between them. One weekend we came home at the same time, and she was drunk beyond belief. And a bit annoying. Not really. She was very annoying.
Usually those types sends up 1000 red flags, but today when she walked towards me she was so beautiful. Dressed all in black, short skirt (and those legs), black top and a light jacket. And sunglasses, though it was like 18C and partly cloudy. I noticed her walking towards me, and tried to act casual, though I wanted to stare at her. Then she said hello on a very un-Finnish distance (several metres), and I was acting like I didn't even noticed her before. Said very friendly "oh, hi! Hi!", unshaven and pretending that I was in my own thoughts.
So what should I do? Usually asking out an neighbour here is considered very odd and might get uncomfortable. She has never brought home anyone (that I know of), and somehow I should charm her where others have failed. I don't know, I've fought hard battles before, but this time I feel quite insecure. Should I ask her out, continue drooling, or forget the whole thing?
edit: Now when I'm looking at my post, I've been trying to talk myself out of the whole thing all the time. LOL.
AARGHH, hate this insecurity. Somebody please kick me. What happened to the "I want you and I'll get you or get drunk" -Ariete?
Ask her out for a few drinks or even a coffee. Bite the bullet and do something at least. What's the worst that could happen?
If she's say no, ah well. If she says yes, awesome!
I've been knocked back loads of times, but I've also succeeded many times. If I was quiet and didn't have the courage to go and speak, I'm sure I wouldn't have had the success I've had with women. (I'm not suggesting I'm some pro either lol)
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NYC weather was exactly what I expected. 
