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Ceece · 03-17-2011, 02:01 AM

Worrying about what others will think should be banished forever.
Besides, people think all sorts of crazy things about you even if you never do anything to give them reason so you really can't win this game.
I actually go around hoping people WILL think something crazy about me...it makes life more interesting.

NY Annie · 03-17-2011, 06:44 AM

I'm from an urban city (can't get more urban than NYC) and I think it sounds like a great play on words and it looks stunning! What a great place. I showed the info to my husband and he agrees with me. So that's what urban people think.

LiLShorty4lyfe · 03-17-2011, 09:22 AM

Thank you everyone for the supportive comments. Also, just so I dont have to start a whole separate post... would it be wrong to get married labor day weekend (to be flexible for guests work schedules) if my daughters bday is September 3rd? I am trying to think long term... she might not care this birthday but would that have adverse affects for celebrating our anniversaries? Or just look ati t as a big celebration and always make sure she still gets her special acknowloedgement?

lovesMountains · 03-17-2011, 10:24 AM

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Originally Posted by LiLShorty4lyfe

Thank you everyone for the supportive comments. Also, just so I dont have to start a whole separate post... would it be wrong to get married labor day weekend (to be flexible for guests work schedules) if my daughters bday is September 3rd? I am trying to think long term... she might not care this birthday but would that have adverse affects for celebrating our anniversaries? Or just look ati t as a big celebration and always make sure she still gets her special acknowloedgement?

You could just as easily have been married first, then later had a baby born on September 3rd, lol.

What would you have done then??

NOTHING. So don't worry about it now

If the long Labor Day weekend works best for your guests then go with it!

LiLShorty4lyfe · 03-17-2011, 10:59 AM

Very good point loves! Thanks

NY Annie · 03-17-2011, 11:10 AM

and I agree! You could even tell your daughter that the day was ALREADY special just like she is. And remember that Labor Day isn't always the same day every year.

meh_whatever · 03-17-2011, 11:41 AM

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Originally Posted by LiLShorty4lyfe

Thank you everyone for the supportive comments. Also, just so I dont have to start a whole separate post... would it be wrong to get married labor day weekend (to be flexible for guests work schedules) if my daughters bday is September 3rd? I am trying to think long term... she might not care this birthday but would that have adverse affects for celebrating our anniversaries? Or just look ati t as a big celebration and always make sure she still gets her special acknowloedgement?

I don't see any problem there, unless you two figure on taking anniversary trips one day that may always conflict with her birthday.

thatsong64 · 03-17-2011, 07:03 PM

My anniversary is only a few days from my sister's birthday (a few days before), his sister's birthday (a few days after), AND Thanksgiving. Oh well. Neither sister was or is upset by it and it doesn't really create any conflicts.

LiLShorty4lyfe · 03-18-2011, 07:53 AM

Ok the final verdict is...::::drum roll:::
We are getting married at 1812 hitching post!!! Put the deposit to save the date today! Thanks for everyones support and great advice

meh_whatever · 03-18-2011, 08:55 AM

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Originally Posted by LiLShorty4lyfe

Ok the final verdict is...::::drum roll:::
We are getting married at 1812 hitching post!!! Put the deposit to save the date today! Thanks for everyones support and great advice

Yay! I'm glad you settled on a venue.