Hey, I'm a pharmacy student in Baltimore and for this upcoming summer, I have the option of staying in the Baltimore area and working in a pharmacy, or I can apply for an internship with my company that gives me housing in various parts of the country that they are trying to attract new talent to.
One of the districts covers Charleston, Huntington, and Beckley, West Virginia as well as Ironton, Ohio and Portsmouth, OH which on the map looks close to West Virginia, and perhaps culturally similar? I'm not even sure I want to do retail pharmacy after I get my PharmD degree but something like this would give me a chance to experience a new culture and lifestyle. I'm a 24 year old Asian American male who lived most of my life in the DC suburbs but despite this description I've always felt a bigger connection and affinity to "Red America" if you know what I mean. This has been reinforced on my 2 one-week rotations in small towns on Maryland's Eastern Shore.
So....I'm wondering if the Southern hospitality in West Virginia is just between natives or applies to outsiders...give that these tourists or newcomers respect the local culture and way of life and not try to change it? Obviously I will be driving around with a Maryland license plate and I'm from Baltimore which despite being more laid back and conservative than the DC area is obviously very different from WV. I'm of Asian descent but very assimilated and not very "ethnic" in the least. I do not even take offense to the Confederate flag because it is not the flag itself but the intent of the person displaying it. One can display that flag to show pride for his/her heritage, or to demonstrate hatred and racism. As is the case for the American flag which is used by the Klan, and the Mexican flag which illegals fly in their protests to show their arrogance and their racism against white and black Americans.
I'm not one of thsoe tourists or transplants who would tell locals what to do. People tell me I was treated better in rural Maryland than they themsleves had been, but unlike them I did not complain about people talking about church at work, about having to drive long distances everywhere or not having much shopping beyond Wal-Mart, or not having Indian restaurants. I treat people with respect and take the time to see what is likable and attractive about their way of life and I did not go with any stereotypes about "hicks" or "rednecks".
I'm a very laid back person with Christian values and am a conservative Republican in every sense. I am big on southern, heartland, and small town values like family, faith, integrity, hard work and independence. While I was raised in the suburbs all my life and still have to learn to hunt and fish, besides that I at least think I'm not that different from the typical Red American. Would southern West Virginia be a good place to spend the summer or potentially even start my career and settle down after graduation? What's it like in terms of being single and meeting someone? Most of the girls here are very yuppie and would never live outside of a major East Coast city, the opposite of what I want. Are the winters very harsh? I know Charleston is south of Baltimore but its also in the mountains vs sea level. Where I live schools close and grocery stores are swamped for 3 inches of snow and the entire newscast is devoted to it.
My other options besides West Virginia/Ohio are Tyler and Waco, Texas, Lynchburg, VA and staying in Baltimore. Being from the East Coast these places plus WV all really feel like the "real America".
