Suggestions requested (Yorktown, Dobbs Ferry, Hastings: neighborhood, school, to live)

[libra67]

Can anyone suggest an area in Westchester County that is accepting and safe for a lesbian couple to live?

[dma1250]

The common wisdom is that the western side of the county is more "liberal" and therefore more likely to be open to non-traditional families. But I doubt that there is anywhere in Westchester that would not be "accepting and safe" for a gay or lesbian couple. I live in Yorktown Heights and we have 3 gay couples (2 with kids) in our relatively small neighborhood. I personally know of at least 4 other such couples with kids in the school system. Our neighbors are certainly accepted and they seem quite happy--and their children are definitely thriving in the school system. I would not be shocked if there were some people in town who are not totally accepting--but they are definitely the minority and they keep quiet about it. Based on my limited experience, you should be fine anywhere.

[libra67]

Thank you so much for your advise. It's funny how you mentioned Yorktown Heights because that's one of the towns I'm seriously considering. Thanks again.

[bmwguydc]

I would concur with dma1250 and think that the Hudson River side of Westchester is going to be the most welcoming, but Westchester is mostly a sophisticated place, and what's considered conservative isn't that conservative. Hastings-on-Hudson, Dobbs Ferry, and Ardsley would also be areas that I'd recommend, and even Croton-on-Hudson could work, though the commute can take longer.

[libra67]

Thank you so much bmwguydc, I really appreciate it.

[bmwguydc]

Originally Posted by libra67

Thank you so much bmwguydc, I really appreciate it.

You are most welcome. Please post again when you have done some exploring if you need any questions answered, since there's a wealth of knowledge on the Westchester board, and the posters here do a great job of giving the lay of the land. Best of luck in your search!