I moved back to Racine after being gone for 10 years. we have 4 children and chose a location near i-94 for commuting purposes. racine is a DIVERSE, urban community. there many different kinds of people from every economic, social, and racial background. i think it is good for children to be exposed to these variations. i really appreciated having this "education" about the world when i went to college. being exposed to so many "types" of people prepared me for the challenges of life. it gave me clear picture of what the world is like. i was not sheltered and i feel it gave me a nice perspective.
try renting a house in racine and see how you like it. the downtown and lakefront are beautiful. there are some great restaurants and shops. the city has some sad, poor areas - but what urban community doesn't? i think you will find that most people are friendly and will try to make you feel welcome.
good luck.
