What do I do?? (applying, interview, payment, references)

[Cool85]

I have gotten myself in a bad situation. I currently work a position I enjoy that doesn't pay so well, and my contract will be over in a few months (my boss said they will extend it). I was proactive in applying and I had an interview for a permanent job that pays more. Now the job is mine conditional upon references.

My two issues:

I don't really have any references I can use because my current boss would be upset if they knew.

A part of me doesn't want to leave the company. I have made friends there, and I have gained some good experience while working there.


What do I do?

[Caltovegas]

Rent, car payment, food, entertainment, long term financial goals, etc... You got your answer.
Just tell the other employer you don't have the references but you will work hard for them.

[mrpeatie]

Use a peer reference. And try and think of anyone outside the company you have dealt with such as a contractor, vendor or consultant. Most people are understanding of not being able to use your current boss. And keep in mind that you will need some of these folks a references in a couple of years anyway.

Since you like the current company so much you could always have a sit down with the boss & explain you really like his company but need to move to xyz for the $. He might try and match or he might agree to give the reference if approached correctly. Bosses tend to be much more understanding of this early in your career than later.