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Old 11-24-2015, 09:17 AM
 
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She graduated from college. Her daddy is the big boss, so she went straight to project manager from college.

Her dad happens to be one of our clients.

We have been having nothing but problems with her.

But put that aside. A couple days ago, she sent me an email. She meant to say "chief" but she misspelled it and said "chef". I replied "from which restaurant?" with a smiley.

Just found out today she is making a big deal out of this. Throwing a tantrum.

She's been accusing us of overcharging them. We and her daddy have been asking for evidence of this for months and she has not produced anything. And yet, she keeps bringing it up in our meetings from time to time, that we're overcharging them.

Just letting out some steam. Hopefully, her boss will at some point stop turning a blind eye to all her legally blond BS.

 
Old 11-24-2015, 09:19 AM
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Location: Florida
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If she's such a PITA, why are you joking with her?
 
Old 11-24-2015, 09:23 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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If she's such a PITA, why are you joking with her?
He enjoys passive-aggression.

I've seen 50-year-olds make typos, though.
 
Old 11-24-2015, 09:26 AM
 
Location: North Carolina
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If she's such a PITA, why are you joking with her?
If she's having chef issues this pita thing could be mistaken for the food
 
Old 11-24-2015, 09:26 AM
 
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If she's such a PITA, why are you joking with her?
Because I didn't know she is so unsecured that she couldn't take a joke. This is construction. People joke all the time.

But you are right. My mistake. She is now officially accusing me of belittling her because of her young age.

FYI, I'm 2 years older than her, so it's not like I'm 50 and she's 20.

I've dealt with such young legally blond types before. They want to force respect rather than earn it.
 
Old 11-24-2015, 09:27 AM
 
Location: Southern California
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I don't think this has much to be with her being 20. Just a personality difference.
 
Old 11-24-2015, 09:28 AM
bUU
 
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He enjoys passive-aggression.
Ack. That would be bad, making him as much to blame as the woman he's complaining about.

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I've seen 50-year-olds make typos, though.
True, but if there is one has a tense relationship with a manager, it is probably best to not appear to be ridiculing that manager.
 
Old 11-24-2015, 09:29 AM
 
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He enjoys passive-aggression.

I've seen 50-year-olds make typos, though.
I understood it was a typo. I make typos. No biggie. The issue is she has turned a one line joke from me into something big. She's trying to get me fired over a 1-line joke of her typo.
 
Old 11-24-2015, 09:31 AM
 
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Ack. That would be bad, making him as much to blame as the woman he's complaining about.

True, but if there is one has a tense relationship with a manager, it is probably best to not appear to be ridiculing that manager.
She's not my manager. She's the client's PM.

Again, it was a joke, not ridiculing. People make a lot worse jokes to the upper echelons than that.
 
Old 11-24-2015, 09:33 AM
bUU
 
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I've dealt with such young legally blond types before. They want to force respect rather than earn it.
Yet your words here make it sound like you're starting from a preconceived notion of disrespect rather than neutral openness. That's got to come through in your tone and demeanor toward her.

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She's not my manager. She's the client's PM.
So a customer, then. I hope you realize that that puts her far above your manager, in terms of the default expectation of respect.

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Again, it was a joke, not ridiculing.
I think it would be exceedingly difficult to convince disinterested third parties of that, so it is best to not take the risk.
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