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Old 05-25-2018, 11:41 AM
 
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Don't give your ex-employer that kind of power. Only YOU wield that power and decide what to do with it. Don't give anyone that control without YOUR consent.
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Old 05-26-2018, 05:58 AM
 
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I don't know how to get over this previous job I had. I had an important role, but I was never trusted to make decisions, there was no budget to hire a large enough team to do what we needed to do and I was constantly questioned about my results. It felt like they made it impossible to be successful. And now I see that they're spending a ton of money on something that is stupid and wasteful and badly executed.

I've moved on to another company that is a much better fit and a role that I'm much happier with. It feels like I got divorced from a ****ty husband who just had a fancy new wedding. I'm bitter and I don't know how to let it go. Anyone experienced this? How to move on emotionally?
Why don't you just accept that some people do things better than you and you do some things better than others. Then again i never been outdone at any of my old jobs. I still am bitter about how i was treated with regard o pay and how it ended.... but so what ? it actually gives me a source of pleasure and introspection and even got me to improve myself.
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