ur story is um heartbreaking oO
wait a sec you are in NYC?????
If your husband will support you/ absolutely sure he'll marry you/ quit find new job. Skimmed story thought in rural town like West Virginia. Keep mentioning it so I think insurance is your biggest concern medical issues? Just freaking out? Cuz if just turned 26 check to see if health plan covers you till the end of the year. If it doesn't, you should be eligible for ACA so yeah and you live in NYC?
You both can find a job here where you don't have to travel what 2 3 4 hours by bus and wake up at 4 AM