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Unread 05-14-2010, 05:39 PM
 
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Default Which culture/country has women with more traditional values?

I realize that this is a generalization and every place on the planet has its exceptions. But I'm looking for places with best probabilities. I was born in Central Europe but lived in US / Canada since I was 12. I'm Caucasian, in my late 30's, financially independent, physically attractive, reasonably intelligent and perfectly sane and normal (so there is nothing "wrong" with me ). What's missing is the RIGHT woman. This is my quest. I'm looking for:

1) Country/Culture where (in general) women have more traditional beliefs. Where the man and the woman are #1 and the ONLY one to each other and all decisions are based on what's best for "us" and not what's best for "me". (This pretty much rules out U.S.A. women, which is why I'm looking elsewhere).

2) Country/Culture where women still have some dignity and self-respect for their bodies, which is, to a large extent, reflected in the way they dress and the number of sex partners. Showing cleavage in public, wearing pants too tight and skirts too short is not only disrespectful to her man but conveys a message that her body is open for public viewing and/or for sale to the highest bidder (just my view). (There is a big difference between what a single guy likes to see when he goes to the clubs from what a man looks for in a potential wife and mother).

Basically, cultures where women put the relationship above all else and dress more conservatively (compared to today's US standards). NOTE: Please do your best to avoid extremes such as "go to middle east and get a woman who wears a burqa" . Thank you so much for your replies.
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Unread 05-14-2010, 06:14 PM
 
Location: San Antonio/Houston
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NOTE: Please do your best to avoid extremes such as "go to middle east and get a woman who wears a burqa" . Thank you so much for your replies.
The closest to your expectation would be a woman from the same culture you are from: Central Europe and countries to the east ( Russian Republics)
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Unread 05-14-2010, 06:48 PM
 
Location: Eastern Washington
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Really depends on what you want in terms of "traditional" as in what traditions exactly are important to you? I agree with elnina that Russian/Eastern ladies will probably "fit" you best, although in my general experience they tend to dress a bit more provocatively - as you probably already know this does not mean they are "loose" or "hos", although if you really want someone who is hung up and sexually repressed, there are plenty of fundamentalist American gals that meet that spec.
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Unread 05-14-2010, 08:43 PM
 
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Maybe check out some of the Amish communities here in the USA.
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Unread 05-15-2010, 12:01 AM
 
Location: Olympus Mons, Mars
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Vatican city

ok seriously, most asian cultures... India, Japan, Thailand, China etc. etc. all very traditional.

If you think US women dress most provocatively you haven't traveled much. Most women in Europe dress much sexier than American women and last time I went to Bangalore, India I found many women with miniskirts WTF! The world is certainly changing.
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Unread 05-15-2010, 12:18 AM
 
Location: Saudi Arabia
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Vatican city

ok seriously, most asian cultures... India, Japan, Thailand, China etc. etc. all very traditional.

If you think US women dress most provocatively you haven't traveled much. Most women in Europe dress much sexier than American women and last time I went to Bangalore, India I found many women with miniskirts WTF! The world is certainly changing.
Lol some indian women are far too ahead of the west .. the world isn't changing its the time that is changing .. i changed too for better or for worse
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Unread 05-15-2010, 12:53 AM
 
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well , I would have wanted to say the women in our country,China, but nowadays people change a lot , a lot of girls aren't traditional at all````
is it a good improvement or a bad thing that prople start to throw the traditional value away ? i don't kown```
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Unread 05-15-2010, 02:00 AM
 
Location: Zawaia, Al-Gharb
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I realize that this is a generalization and every place on the planet has its exceptions. But I'm looking for places with best probabilities. I was born in Central Europe but lived in US / Canada since I was 12. I'm Caucasian, in my late 30's, financially independent, physically attractive, reasonably intelligent and perfectly sane and normal (so there is nothing "wrong" with me ). What's missing is the RIGHT woman. This is my quest. I'm looking for:

1) Country/Culture where (in general) women have more traditional beliefs. Where the man and the woman are #1 and the ONLY one to each other and all decisions are based on what's best for "us" and not what's best for "me". (This pretty much rules out U.S.A. women, which is why I'm looking elsewhere).

2) Country/Culture where women still have some dignity and self-respect for their bodies, which is, to a large extent, reflected in the way they dress and the number of sex partners. Showing cleavage in public, wearing pants too tight and skirts too short is not only disrespectful to her man but conveys a message that her body is open for public viewing and/or for sale to the highest bidder (just my view). (There is a big difference between what a single guy likes to see when he goes to the clubs from what a man looks for in a potential wife and mother).

Basically, cultures where women put the relationship above all else and dress more conservatively (compared to today's US standards). NOTE: Please do your best to avoid extremes such as "go to middle east and get a woman who wears a burqa" . Thank you so much for your replies.
Unless you have an aversion to conservative Christians, it would seem that you would have no problem finding such a woman among their kind in the U.S.
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Unread 05-15-2010, 03:09 AM
 
Location: 30-40°N 90-100°W
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As different cultures have different traditions on women I'm not really sure a comparison can be done like this.

Possibly a smaller town in Chile or Malta could come close. They are both fairly religious countries with a conservative element even if Chile's led by a socialist. Although Malta gets warm and they do have beaches. So another possibility is the US states of Utah and North Dakota. They are landlocked and unlike the South they rank low on the "sin map" for lust. (Meaning they have a low rate of STDs)

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They are also low on the share of women who have been divorced or have been married three or more times. Utah might fit better in some ways, but North Dakota is colder so women might be covering themselves up more albeit by necessity.

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Unread 05-15-2010, 07:06 AM
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Location: CT
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I think Polish girls are suppose to be more "traditional". Or so everyone tells me, I'm "tainted goods" cause I grew up here -_- but it's what I'm told anyway.
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