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Old 07-18-2018, 12:28 PM
 
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Hi all !
How's it going?

At the beginning, I know the grammar of using "so, very and too". I could misuse them sometimes. My question is: is it correct or safe if we use "so" in the place of "very" in all situations, which mean I can use "so" in the place of "very", but I can't use "very" in the place of "so" because, so has more branches. If I got confused between using "so" and "very" as example, using "so" will be safe in all cases.
Can I make such a general rule?
Ex:
-This morning is so cold.
-This morning is very cold.
-She is very beautiful.
-She is so beautiful.
-He is very good.
-He is so good.


Thank you very much or thank you so much
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Old 07-18-2018, 01:48 PM
 
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In the case of "this morning it's very cold", the thought is complete.

In the case of "this morning it's so cold" there is an implied second half. "So" is actually half of the pair "so----that". So what's implied is "this morning it's so cold [that...phrase of your choice here]".

In other words, in both cases "very" and "so" are used as intensifiers, but there is a subtle stylistic difference. To native speakers of American English the subtle sub-meanings are understood, but may not be apparent to a non-native speaker. (I don't know about other varieties of English which is why I specified "American English".) To me the "very cold" version is less intense, more matter of fact, whereas I imagine the "so cold" version being said with more emphasis on the word "so", maybe even with a little imitation shivering and body language to emphasize it even further.

Both are correct and to me neither one has any potentially embarrassing connotations.
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Old 07-18-2018, 03:06 PM
 
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What turf3 wrote is correct. Using "so" kind of implies that there will be more coming in the sentence. But it is certainly acceptable.


I like to use "very". It seems clearer to me. I might also use "really" as an intensifier.
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Old 07-19-2018, 04:54 AM
 
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In the case of "this morning it's very cold", the thought is complete.

In the case of "this morning it's so cold" there is an implied second half. "So" is actually half of the pair "so----that". So what's implied is "this morning it's so cold [that...phrase of your choice here]".

In other words, in both cases "very" and "so" are used as intensifiers, but there is a subtle stylistic difference. To native speakers of American English the subtle sub-meanings are understood, but may not be apparent to a non-native speaker. (I don't know about other varieties of English which is why I specified "American English".) To me the "very cold" version is less intense, more matter of fact, whereas I imagine the "so cold" version being said with more emphasis on the word "so", maybe even with a little imitation shivering and body language to emphasize it even further.

Both are correct and to me neither one has any potentially embarrassing connotations.
Exactly. The first thing that popped into my mind was the old Johnny Carson classic "It was so cold out this morning I saw a dog stuck to a fire hydrant."
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Old 07-19-2018, 04:16 PM
 
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In the case of "this morning it's very cold", the thought is complete.

In the case of "this morning it's so cold" there is an implied second half. "So" is actually half of the pair "so----that". So what's implied is "this morning it's so cold [that...phrase of your choice here]".

In other words, in both cases "very" and "so" are used as intensifiers, but there is a subtle stylistic difference. To native speakers of American English the subtle sub-meanings are understood, but may not be apparent to a non-native speaker. (I don't know about other varieties of English which is why I specified "American English".) To me the "very cold" version is less intense, more matter of fact, whereas I imagine the "so cold" version being said with more emphasis on the word "so", maybe even with a little imitation shivering and body language to emphasize it even further.

Both are correct and to me neither one has any potentially embarrassing connotations.
Yes, your comment is EXACTLY like what mentioned in the rule. When I try to answer some multiple choice exercises about this grammar, I found that there is a case where "so" is being used without "that" like the examples above where the sentence is always ended with a full stop. And one of the option is "Either so or very". Every time I choose one of them is considered wrong. "Either so or very" choice is the only correct answer according to what mentioned. So, according to this, I can conclude that "so" includes very but "very" not include "so".
There is something caught my attention in your comment, I'd like to ask about it but not related with "so"rule. When you rewrote my example above, you wrote it in this way:
"this morning it's very cold" while I wrote it like this" This morning is very cold"
I noticed that you added the pronounce "it" while the pronounce refers to "this morning". That's why I I just put a helping verb without pronounce, I feel like if I want to put "it" I would put a comma after this morning. I'm I wrong?


Thank you very much turf3

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Old 07-19-2018, 04:24 PM
 
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What turf3 wrote is correct. Using "so" kind of implies that there will be more coming in the sentence. But it is certainly acceptable.


I like to use "very". It seems clearer to me. I might also use "really" as an intensifier.
Clear!
According to the rule, there is "so very" term that used for intensifying also but I don't find it used a lot.
Some times, if I want to use an intensifier, I use" very very", this is not existed in English, you just can find it in my own lexical


Thank you very much LilyMae521

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Old 07-19-2018, 04:29 PM
 
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Exactly. The first thing that popped into my mind was the old Johnny Carson classic "It was so cold out this morning I saw a dog stuck to a fire hydrant."
Is this idiom or proverb or literature? What does it mean?

Thank you vary much harry chickpea
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Old 07-20-2018, 09:21 AM
 
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Is this idiom or proverb or literature? What does it mean?

Thank you vary much harry chickpea
It is a part of a schtick. Think of it like a Zen koan to test your growth in understanding humor by exaggeration.
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Old 07-24-2018, 05:33 PM
 
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Understood it ! I didn't expect "humor". It seemed to me as separate sentences so that I didn't understand the meaning of it.
Thank you harry chickpea for your clarification
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Old 09-05-2018, 02:31 AM
 
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Danny boy, oh, Danny boy, I love you so.

Sometimes the word just works the best of all.
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