Young black woman living up North, wanting to move south. Unsure about ATL (Atlanta: 2015, taxes)

[newwoman2]

Originally Posted by bhammaster

You stated silly stereotypes not based on anything objective about nearly 3 million men. We haven't heard any hard facts coming from you.

I haven't heard any hard facts coming from you. AND I dont care what you think. I'm going to say what I feel regardless of how you feel about it. Did you just get off work itching to get back home and get on your computer to start messing with strangers online? Is this your night-time hobby?

[AcidSnake]

Originally Posted by bhammaster

Sneaking in some hotep mysognior crap in here. You think we don't live in patriarchy?

Myso-g-nior? What's that, a soup? Like miso soup?

[newwoman2]

Originally Posted by AcidSnake

Your opinion man. Not going to knock you for it.

All I can say is people of my demographic does not deal with the strip-club & nightlife stuff so much anymore.

We've out-grown the time-wasting American crap. We stack our paper, get our passports, and go overseas to get the max enjoyment out of life.

Anything else is simply find a young woman to kick it with.

It's a fast-growing movement of brothas who are over this stuff. The American attitudes, the stuffy behavior, the pretentiousness, all that stuff.

You don't have to take my word for it. You never notice how fewer and fewer brothas are out in the nightlife these days?

You can't tell me that that observation hasn't escape your eyes, even if you ideologically want to think otherwise.

Oh my god yes! I'm into learning how to build wealth. I'm obsessed with self-development and financial development/education. I'm into going to workshops with other entrepreneurs. I'm into being apart of investment groups, going to networking events, making art, going to Film festivals and networking with artists. I have my passport too and look forward to traveling and eating at the finest restaurants.

I do meet at least one new guy that is attracted to me most of the time when I go out to events up here in MA, so I'm sure it would double in ATL. But it can't be these strip-club-weed-no-job-no apartment-disrespectful-down low-or cheater/player-******* and hos-calling women type of men.

I want an on-point man.

[newwoman2]

Originally Posted by bhammaster

It's one thing to not like strip clubs, it is another to insult the women who work the sex industry. That makes you out to an a$$-hole no matter how you think you sound right now.

I'm reporting your comments. I hope the admins ban you soon.

[AcidSnake]

Anyways, to restate my previous suggestion if I was the OP I would simply find an environment like a workplace where men would be most present.

Police Departments, Government agencies in the metro that are diverse, that sort of thing.

That way you know what jobs these guys are working & their education levels so that's less research to conduct.

Also you expend the least amount of energy and effort to talk to the maximum amount of men in a densely packed environment. Which will lead to having maximum quality choices.

The goal is to get what you want with minimum energy & effort to get maximum gain & advantage.

[newwoman2]

Originally Posted by AcidSnake

Anyways, to restate my previous suggestion if I was the OP I would simply find an environment like a workplace where men would be most present.

Police Departments, Government agencies in the metro that are diverse, that sort of thing.

That way you know what jobs these guys are working & their education levels so that's less research to conduct.

Also you expend the least amount of energy and effort to talk to the maximum amount of men in a densely packed environment. Which will lead to having maximum quality choices.

The goal is to get what you want with minimum energy & effort to get maximum gain & advantage.

Thanks, I really appreciate your insight.

[AcidSnake]

Originally Posted by newwoman2

I want an on-point man.

Totally possible. Just look at my previous suggestion. You want it to be an organic situation where the conversations are natural and ongoing.

I work downtown Atlanta in a location where I have a lot of friendships with many people across different organizations, mostly public but with a few private organizations. City of Atlanta, the State of Georgia/Capitol Hill, Sam Nunn & Richard B. Russell Federal Buildings, Grady Hospital, Georgia State University, the CNN center, you name it.

I often connect with those folks on linkedin so that if I want to follow up and hang out we can make it happen.

The trick is to locate yourself in a densely packed area where you will have maximum opportunities to talk to people over a time period.

People sleep on the workplace as a possible source to find good friendships, but believe me when I say that it is the best out of all places.

[fieldm]

Originally Posted by AnsleyPark

I wouldn't go as I believe it disrespects woman, including my mom, sisters, wife and daughters. If others want to go, well, I suppose it's a free country, but the objectification of women is objectable to me.

What about C-D? Do you feel like it disrespect your employer if you are on C-D during work hours?

When you drive 1 mile over the speed limit do you feel you are disrespecting other drivers?

If you ever watched porn, did you still watch it even though it may disrespect women?

When you smoke cigarettes or weed do you feel like it is disrespects people breathing second hand smoke?

If you have every cheated on your taxes did you still do it knowing you are disrespecting your country?

[newwoman2]

Originally Posted by fieldm

What about C-D? Do you feel like it disrespect your employer if you are on C-D during work hours?

When you drive 1 mile over the speed limit do you feel you are disrespecting other drivers?

If you ever watched porn, did you still watch it even though it may disrespect women?

When you smoke cigarettes or weed do you feel like it is disrespects people breathing second hand smoke?

If you have every cheated on your taxes did you still do it knowing you are disrespecting your country?

Driving a mile over the speed limit is no big deal at all and is not worth talking about. To me and the person you're quoting, strip clubs is something that is a big deal.

Does watching porn disrespect women? Sure, if you're in a relationship and you're doing it all the time.

Yes, smoking around people that dont smoke is absolutely disrespectful of them.

Taxes? It is not disrespecting the country. That's subjective.

And strip clubs is still disrespectful, especially to the woman in the relationship.

Next question

[arjay57]

Originally Posted by AnsleyPark

I wouldn't go as I believe it disrespects woman, including my mom, sisters, wife and daughters. If others want to go, well, I suppose it's a free country, but the objectification of women is objectable to me.

Completely agree.