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Old 10-20-2015, 05:09 PM
 
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Why don't you just sell the van and keep the money. It doesn't sound like the BF or his son appreciate you or what you do for them.
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Old 10-22-2015, 10:21 AM
 
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So how did it turn out?
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Old 10-22-2015, 11:42 PM
 
Location: Indianapolis, Indiana
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Why don't you just sell the van and keep the money. It doesn't sound like the BF or his son appreciate you or what you do for them.
His son don't appreciated what I did to help him out. He have no respect for me. I am not interested to helped him out anymore. I am ready to move on.
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Old 10-22-2015, 11:55 PM
 
Location: Indianapolis, Indiana
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So how did it turn out?
I send his son a text message last weekend. I told him that he have no legal right to keep the van at his girlfriend's house. I got proof the van title that is in my name. I also told him that he have one week to return it or I will go to the police. He got mad and send his dad a nasty text messages. He said that he don't want to talk to us because I want him to get the van transfer to his name. He want me to keep the van in my name and pay car insurance on it. I told him no. I am not his mother or sugar momma. He don't want to take adult responsibility. He need to grow up at 29 year old. The lady at the DMV office told me that the car plate for the van is supposed to be renewed on December 7th. I am not going to renewed it. My boyfriend told him that he got until October 30th to transfer the van to his name or we will get the plate off the van. He won't able to drive it without the plate. His son keep saying that he is in a tight spot. He is not paying rent or bills. My boyfriend is willing to pay for the transfer title of his son's name. It is only $15 dollars. He will not pay for car plate and car insurance. His son is on his own to get the car plate and car insurance.
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Old 10-23-2015, 12:26 AM
 
Location: Conway
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Petitegal 74, you need to do it now. Don't wait until the end of October or December. It may be too late in case the van gets in an accident and kill someone. Get that van off the road NOW. Please.
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Old 10-23-2015, 06:59 AM
 
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What is stopping you from taking it back?! You can even have it towed if it's in your name. You absolutely need to do this now.
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Old 10-23-2015, 12:26 PM
 
Location: U.S.A.
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Holy crap... lady, just get this over with, NOW! Quit waiting and warning! These people sound like a virus, why would you deal with this?
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Old 10-23-2015, 12:53 PM
 
Location: Hickory, NC
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December. LOL. Watch it get wrecked before she takes any action.
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Old 10-23-2015, 02:22 PM
 
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Petitegal 74, you need to do it now. Don't wait until the end of October or December. It may be too late in case the van gets in an accident and kill someone. Get that van off the road NOW. Please.
Not only could he get into an accident, but the vindictive little POS may very well destroy it before giving it back, just to spite you. I have seen what can happens to a vehicle when the driver knows it is going to be repossessed.
I would tell him we are coming after it today. Take your bf with you, if he won't stand up with you against his son on this matter, dump him too. bf raised that kid in his own image.
This is not going to end well, no matter what happens, so take steps to protect yourself. Remember, nice guys never win, especially when dealing with an immature loser. Take care of it immediately or pay the price. Stop being weak, it will cost you dearly..
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Old 10-23-2015, 06:47 PM
 
Location: Columbia, California
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,,, The lady at the DMV office told me that the car plate for the van is supposed to be renewed on December 7th. I am not going to renewed it.,,,.
I sold a car to a friend once. It took several years for me to find that he never transferred the car in his name. He went into AAA club or the DMV and said he did not receive the renewal and wanted to pay. He paid in cash and tags were issued in my name.

I would fill out the forms stating you transferred it to him at the DMV, I would then cancel the insurance. The DMV will take care of it from there.
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