Why's the dating scene in Southern California so bad? (Los Angeles: move to, deal)

[revelated]

Originally Posted by Huckleberry3911948

is there a place where there is no interest in sex and money.

Greenland.

[CAVA1990]

Originally Posted by Guineas

Now I know why there are Tea Partiers.

Because their dating scene mainly involves family members?

[the city]

I saw the same problem. This one girl I knew would not have sex with me (she didnt say why) but the guys she did have sex with had rich mommy and daddy. The girls, who I knew would have sex with me, were on my end of the chain.

[CAVA1990]

Originally Posted by the city

I saw the same problem. This one girl I would not have sex with me (didnt say why) but the guys she did have sex with had rich mommy and daddy. The girls who I knew would have sex with me were on my end of the chain.

Perhaps I'm developing late onset dyslexia but I haven't a clue as to what this means.

[the city]

Originally Posted by CAVA1990

Perhaps I'm developing late onset dyslexia but I haven't a clue as to what this means.

Wow you are the first person to say something about my grammar. I edited it

[revelated]

Originally Posted by the city

Wow you are the first person to say something about my grammar. I edited it

I understood it the first time - I don't think it was grammar but how you worded things. But you're basically saying "the ones who rejected you did so because you're not rich. The ones who didn't reject you didn't care about the cash."

[WB5150]

I left cali for many reasons,

the dating scene is garbage, everyone is the same, and thats after dodging the bars and clubs, so somebody please help me with this if i have a problem, because I believe I dont.

the job market blows

and lets face it....people are getting resilient now that we are in balls deep in this recession.

that means all the women who were gold diggers who banged for bucks, status or whatever....

are now using marraige/childbirth as a hustle.

you may think you have a winner, but all shes investing is enough time to trap you in alimony, make you think shes hot **** to wanna blow in her, so you can say you made a baby with her, and now you got nothing...no access to the kid, no trophy wife, just a leech who drives around in a s5 mercedes benz with plate borders that read "alimony pays the note on this baby"

that aint me....but i got hip to that **** before it became me.

met a girl out in texas who actually had graduated college....not one of those professional students like the broads in so-cal, and now its all good. I live better, have a healthy relationship, and dont have to deal with none of the drama....

in other words **** cali.....theres not enough palm trees or nice weather to keep me there anymore.

and that goes DOUBLE for women.

[Roaddog]

It must be something about the men in S.Ca. a good friend of mine in his 50's just became single last year and he sure isn't complaining, he's meeting all types of women from S.Ca. a few have been nurses, a policeman and a buisness owner, maybe it's just the guys are lame.

[West of Encino]

My friend who is married is planning on moving out here from the South. He's a gender segregationist who believes that having women as neighbors or having female friends will create a negative atmosphere. That might be true.

Single (even married) women in Southern California have a habit of flirting with married men. If the men aren't interested, the single women would try their best to make false accusations of cheating.

[coll78]

Originally Posted by West of Encino

I live in the LA area and every woman I come across seems high maintenance. They seem to want men either for sex or money.

Is there any part in Southern California where women aren't like that?

Are you talking about the men or the women?