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Originally Posted by hellard
My dad was recently placed in a nursing home for the on set of dementia. The nursing home is calling every day because my dad wants to go home. The doctor says he needs 24 hour care which I cannot provide but they are saying that they can get me for neglect when I am not a legal guardian to him
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The nursing home is threatening you with neglect? Are they trying to discharge him?
Call his Doctor...tell his staff what the nursing home is threatening you with. Tell them you are not able to properly care for him at home. And you are confused, ask to have the local Ombudsman call you. Ombudsman look out for seniors in facilities. Explain you can't care for him at home, and that you're confused as to what you are supposed to do to get him the appropriate care.
You need to talk to someone, like the social worker at the nursing home, or the ombudsman...sounds like he needs to be discharged to a facility that can provide the appropriate care. If medicare is paying, there are deadlines and red tape that facilities have to jump thru in order to get him the care he needs. You are likely the decision maker by default.
They are likely needing your signature to be able to transfer him. How long have you been avoiding their calls, or avoiding dealing with this? It will be ok if you talk to them...it can be extremely confusing. I think someone is dropping the ball in failing to set you down and explain what happens to you. Instead they are scaring you..call that ombudsman.
here is a national link...you can look up the ombudsman for your area tell them what's going on. They will get you all on the same page, and get your Dad the care he needs.
http://theconsumervoice.org/get_help
good luck to you.